Hey it’s Jamie – thanks for taking the time to check out the free training I’ve got lined up for you. I’m totally certain you’ve just made a very smart decision that will literally skyrocket your language skills. Anyway – let’s get on with the training…simply click ‘play’ on the video and get ready for some very cool stuff>>>>
Let me know what you think by posting your comments below. I’d love to get your feedback – along with an idea of what else you’d like to learn about.
Jamie
Vikki said,
August 8, 2008 @ 1:39 pm
Thanks Jamie –
One of the many things that has struck me since becoming a practitioner is timing … and once again that has occurred. I know that has to do with filters changing etc and that makes it more exciting for me.
I am about to go on holiday (yay) and am looking forward to exploring new places for me and during that break from my job I am going to be looking at some of the limiting beliefs that I hold about myself regarding relationships … or my perception of those anyway
I appreciate you sharing your “a-ha” moment at this time …
Vikki
Tracy said,
August 8, 2008 @ 1:39 pm
Wow!!!!!!
Thank you.
On the road again!
Mythili said,
August 8, 2008 @ 1:43 pm
Hi Jamie,
I really appreciate this. Thank you very much for this valuable information, that too free! I have attended a seminar for NLP but frankly I still couldn’t delineate exactly what I wanted and get over some of my “limiting beleifs.” After viewing this video I’m very hopeful and feel I’ve got a direction how to arrive at that! Thanks again!
Wish you all the very best in life!!!
Regards,
Mythili
Mike Scott said,
August 8, 2008 @ 1:44 pm
Excellent and thanks
Mike
Barry said,
August 8, 2008 @ 1:45 pm
Hi Jamie
Excellent vid on conv belief change
Barry
James Tsakalos said,
August 8, 2008 @ 1:49 pm
Nice work mate, and a valuable new distinction for me too – I love it when that happens!
What would I want if it didn’t mean anything about me? My head’s still buzzing over that one …
Cheers,
James
Ibrahim said,
August 8, 2008 @ 1:51 pm
Thank u so much Jamie. I really appreciate what u have done. you cann’t imagine how much i love NLP and want to be a professional in it.
could u do me a favor? i want to have your own email. i will be grateful if u do it. Best wishes.
Derek Kirkup said,
August 8, 2008 @ 1:55 pm
Hi there Jaimie,
Thank you for sharing this with us, it’s great that you offer so much material for free; this has certainly reeled me in and I value your output!
It’s conjured up all kinds of questions for me, some of which I were going to pose to you, but I think it will be more beneficial to explore them myself.
Sleight of mouth seems a very interesting skillset, I have always wanted to know ways of helping people that may be too skeptical of psychotherapy or too set in their ways, to be open to real change.
Thanks again,
Derek Kirkup
steve said,
August 8, 2008 @ 2:04 pm
Hi Jamie, real good to hear the questions you asked and how you used them. I’d be interested in more “how to do this” – taking the theory and putting it into practice, and SOM feels like a good subject to cover in more depth please
Chet said,
August 8, 2008 @ 2:12 pm
Hi Jamie
Very much enjoyed your training here. I appreciated your transparency about the difficulties in your own life and really enjoy your gift of storytelling. Thank you for helping bust a few more mind sets and then shining the light on the practical steps needed to be taken.
With Gratitude, Chet
Franky said,
August 8, 2008 @ 2:18 pm
Hi Jamie….
Many thanks for the blog cast it was great….
I would just like to let you know that within my field of life, we call the Script/map you talk of, conditioning- conditioning of the mind since childhood…..
There are so many people awakening to what is really happening in our world and our lives right now and are having big problems with –conditioning!
And trying to overcome it and change their lives for the better…
Thank you my friend for sharing this with us….
natasha said,
August 8, 2008 @ 2:27 pm
Thank-you for bringing these language patterns alive through video. Its really made me think. I like hearing your examples and thanks for sharing some of the books that have inspired you . x
Patsy said,
August 8, 2008 @ 2:29 pm
thanks Jamie
its always quality stuff. I’d like to hear more on the SOM please! Techniques and examples would be good.
Ive always regarded the unconscious (or subconscious?) the bit of the iceberg not obviously exposed but the biggest area to be aware of.
Keep it coming!
Patsy
chris said,
August 8, 2008 @ 2:36 pm
Thanks Jamie,
All those questions got me right away thinking about my fear of public speaking. I trained as an actor and was a pretty good one too but the moment it was me up there speaking, as me – I would crumble and stutter and get nervous and go red. It would be like an internal battle was raging between my rational mind and my subconscious (which would be screaming for me to run away and hide)… for the first time I’m wondering what it is that my subconscious thinks it’s helping me with by doing that. Thanks for giving me the insight to try to work this through!
Willie said,
August 8, 2008 @ 2:39 pm
Hi Jamie,
Thanks for the freebie! I had just mentioned to a friend this morning that I have let my NLP study/practice fall by the wayside recently so thank you also for helping me to re-focus. Perfect Timing!
Best Wishes,
Willie.
Hoda said,
August 8, 2008 @ 2:40 pm
Hi Jamie,
Thanks alot,it was real nice.
For me,Ive just strated with the NLP and im really keen on learing more,and actually being able to practically use it.
One problem with the question you asked “what you want”,,well,for me I know what i want but im always like, what if i do it and i realize i was wrong,what if i change my mind next year…. its the same for me in my career and in my relationships.
Anyway,its real nice to be able to actually contact you.
Warm regards
Hoda
neda said,
August 8, 2008 @ 2:40 pm
Hi Jamie, salut from Zagreb, Croatia, Europe. Thank you for sharing this whit us. Your training is very helpful for me. I work as communications trainer and I use often you NLP patterns in my trainings. Thank you. Best regards, Neda
Iwan said,
August 8, 2008 @ 2:47 pm
Hi Jamie and thanks for sharing. The teacher is there when the pupil is ready..
Have a perfect day!
//Iwan
Vincent said,
August 8, 2008 @ 2:50 pm
Hi Jamie
As a veteran of NLP myself since 1984 and having studied with Dilts it is totally refreshing to get a vlog entry of this quality.
It was good to get a sense of your passion for and belief in the language patterns you talked about – and that it is contageous is clear to see from the comments left for you so far – what does it for me is the consummate ease by which you explain it and the texture of your voice. Apart from the NLP-specific audience to which it seems aimed, this would be of great benefit to the development of any presenter of information looking to inspire and encourage as well as positively influence others.
I’d love to add this to my blog with your permission – http://www.morpheuscoaching.co.uk
Darren said,
August 8, 2008 @ 2:52 pm
Look forward to more of these mini-presentations; they are short, digestible, user-friendly, with good take-away value. Many thanks
Tania said,
August 8, 2008 @ 2:57 pm
Hi Jamie,
Timing, timing timing!. What Syncronicity! Just completed my Master Prac. This afternoon your video pops into my mail to remind and inspire at the exact right time. Masterful. A gem of a Video ditty!
Keep Shining,
Thank you
Tania
Michael V said,
August 8, 2008 @ 3:00 pm
WOw, What a way to end my week, Bud you have got something going here, the good stuff is still to come I can feel it.
Looking at this from a spiritual point of view is mind blowing.
God tells us in His word, see it as if it is already there. Man< I am so charged up you have just given my the key to a sermon I have been working on. Got to run.
Be Blessed.
Michael
sarat said,
August 8, 2008 @ 3:03 pm
sorry vid was not working but also I know that your presenting is always great thank u for remembering me
Mari said,
August 8, 2008 @ 3:19 pm
Ciao Jamie,
I just came back from a job interview for a very exiting and challenging position. After talking to the CEO of the company I was even a bit chocked about how much responsibility this job requires and was surprised that I was one of the few who got to the interview.
Anyway, I came back from the interview excited but at the same time saying to myself that it’s not for me – I just couldn’t handle the position. And at the same time still saying “wouldn’t it be just fab to work in that company and in that position”.
The first thing I did when I got home, was opened my inbox and found your letter there. It’s just what I need at this moment. I’m off to excplore these questions right now eager to have answers to them. So THANK YOU, Jamie. Hope to learn more about this in upcoming days.
Christopher James said,
August 8, 2008 @ 3:20 pm
Dear Jamie:
I am quite delighted to finally be able to picture you and your vibrant energy each time ill get one of those jamie smart emails
I appreciate this video. i know of many times that i “sabbotaged” myself all the while, it had a good intention. No regrets either because i wouldnt be where i am today!
i have many wants, all deeply related to projects to make money that in turn are things to make life better for people hahaha…(own my own business mindset) I spend money on machinery and proceed to do nothing like i dont want to fail… so i fail by doing nothing. (i see how self talk made that happen
When i think of education like NLP in toronto i come up broke… like the resale value in a machine i must not be seeing how valuable ill be to people once im educated… or like how ill get paid 
since i can resale the machines for more… strange i dont do that more… i feel the need to keep them when i always find better….
Im taking a Social service worker course at our college, I realise the material we are learning… although somewhat usefull is dated thinking. and should be NLP and EFT… Here in ontario you have to be registered as a SSW to get your foot in the door at these helping agencies( GOV funded) If i do this, get a bit more schooling to get a BSW i can have a private practice that is (gov funded) so i can help people and not worry about being paid by them. Its either that or have another source of income that doesnt eat up time best used on others.
haha i love how your video gets me thinking more concrete and specific.
I recommend EFT its amazing. i in a sense stole the course so now i know its worth having paid for.. it blows my SSW material out of the water… so does nlp… finding the material is hopefully just timing.. either that or i need to really get motivated to make money to pay for everything… please look into it. it will be something you will help people with.
looking forward to more
and thanks,, ill be on a different train of thought all day
Christopher James Birch
Dick said,
August 8, 2008 @ 3:26 pm
Hi Jamie,
i found that extremely useful. i identified a specific limiting belief and now i see it completely differently. There is something profound and beautiful about woring at that level within myself. i will use this with my clients
Keep up the good work and i hope to attend one of your courses shortly. got very close to going this week but it did not fit just right.
Thanking you,
Dick
Svetlana said,
August 8, 2008 @ 3:30 pm
Jamie,
I am sure you know but I want to encourage you anyways, that what you do is really so precious… and valuable… for me, personally. Like never before I am open to accept that I have dreams and desires, and its ok to have them. Now I finally am able to perceive what exactly is holding me back. When you said start thinking about those I can’t s, I didn’t think I could formulate them, but I took a piece of paper and actually did… They were several but it turned out the theme was one and the same. So, now I will see how I am going to deal with it…
I will work some more on accepting them, but I can’t get a story about them. I have no idea how they came about to be. Anyways, I will give it some more thinking..
:):)
Wanted to thank you personally! and tell you that my life is starting to change, and indeed like the previous postings… everything seems to come in just such a good timing!!! Incredible! I can only say: Praise God for this!
Gerald said,
August 8, 2008 @ 3:38 pm
Hi Jamie,
Thank you for your time and giving. I’ve been on a roller coaster ride for the past 4 years and I’ve lost myself somewhere. Financially and personally. I know that somewhere inside of me is this person who can do great things and be a great contributor to society. How can I reach in and pull me out, clean things up and see the light of day.
Your friend Gerald
Turil said,
August 8, 2008 @ 3:45 pm
This was great timing! I was just last night asking a therapist (I’m that desperate!
how to choose which of my goals to focus on. I have so many, and they are all important. The therapist was, not surprisingly, pretty useless. But this video offered me a useful way to approach that decision making process, and helped me clarify my most important goal. So thanks muchly for sharing this.
I am curious, though, about my limiting belief that I discovered while watching the video. What would you say to someone who’s got the limiting belief that “I can’t help people who don’t want to be helped.”?
Finally, and somewhat unexpectedly, I’d like to point out that it’s a limiting belief to think that being homeless can’t help you get what you want. I’m homeless right now (and have been for the past month), and I’m getting more of what I want and need now than I did when I had a home. Honestly! Being homeless gives you a sort of freedom that you don’t have when you’re tied to a place, and it opens you up to discovering how helpful and caring complete strangers can be when given a change, and how bountiful the universe really is when you look in the places you might never have considered going. I’m not saying that you have to be homeless to be free (and I’d certainly love to have a home if I could find one that welcomed me and was healthy for me to be in), but I am saying that you can definitely let go of that particular limiting belief and see how EVERYTHING you do when you’re walking the path to where you truly desire to go is far better than anything else you could do, even if it comes as a surprise to you how much you enjoy it.
Giles said,
August 8, 2008 @ 3:53 pm
The timing of this video couldnt have been any better. I have been working with a very challenging client and have been left scratching my head. You and Christina have reminded me of the power of questioning regarding belief change, especially setting the frame of belief structure just being a story. Cooooool stuff!
Many thanks.
Ross said,
August 8, 2008 @ 3:54 pm
To me, the video is really weird and funny. Iwouldn’t do such a thing even If I live to be hundred.
It makes you reflect on it, though.
Lovingly,
Ross
kefilwe said,
August 8, 2008 @ 3:57 pm
thank u so much. this video got me thinking. i have genuinely not known the answer to the question to what i really want fully until now. this just shows me that a person can be honestly lying to themselves.
Graig Griffin said,
August 8, 2008 @ 4:06 pm
Thanks Jamie, I had just finshed Bruce Lipton’s “The Wisdom of Your Cells” (fabulous) and needed a grounding to technique – a bit of bringing it home, if you will, and this was perfect.
Namaste,
Graig
Peter said,
August 8, 2008 @ 4:13 pm
Hi Jamie,
Great clip, I didn’t want it to stop !!
I have been aaware of NLP for a long time and thought, one day I’ll find out more. Well I’m doing that now and can’t get enough, I love everything about it and this clip has given me another insight.
keep up the great work.
Peter
Rudy said,
August 8, 2008 @ 4:14 pm
Great stuff, I wish you had a link to it, I would luv to post this on my myspace account. Thanks for the wisdom!
Anjuli said,
August 8, 2008 @ 4:16 pm
You have condensed really valuable information in your video. It’s superb.
I am an avid reader of your newsletters as I find them very useful.
Recently I was in Spain on a project, there I helped a room of 30 people overcome fear by applying NLP, it felt great.
Thank you for your wonderful tips and information.
benjamin said,
August 8, 2008 @ 4:21 pm
what if you cant, becuase you tried and failed…..like me
many many times….
microdot said,
August 8, 2008 @ 4:22 pm
Hi Jamie, thanks for inviting me.
It’s amazing how sometimes one can learn far more from a relatively short video clip than one can learn from a whole book on a particular subject.
I particularly enjoyed the subtle use of nested loops that was utilised but not overtly mentioned in your video.
I’d particulary like to see some material on use of hypnotic and influential language as that’s the particular area I’m looking at just now.
Kiki said,
August 8, 2008 @ 4:23 pm
Jamie, really love this … very, very useful not only for me (managing my sports performance better) but also for the ‘conversations’ I have with my clients.
Love the earrings by the way, and really looking forward to hearing more of your passionate observations.
Ta muchly, Kiki
Mitch said,
August 8, 2008 @ 4:25 pm
Hi Jamie
In the bouncer story you completely wrong footed him as he was expecting an argument in which he was prepared for and the answer was an automatic “No”. You made him need to think of a reason to ruin the get together and as there was no anger or demands from you his automatic “No” shield was off line.
I wonder if you can help me with my problem? I love NLP and want to become a NLP therapist to help others, but first I have to help myself.
For fifty years every time I find something that gives me joy and happiness someone will come and take it away from me. This has left me being frightened of doing anything that could make me happy as I do not want the pain of losing the happiness again.
Whats your thoughts
With Thanks
Mitch
Mark said,
August 8, 2008 @ 4:26 pm
Good to hear and see you for the first time Jamie. Short & powerful stuff.
Try adding a send to a friend feature on your blog cause I know enough people that could use your guidance!
Mark
Andy said,
August 8, 2008 @ 4:29 pm
Hi Jamie,
Yet again, a beautifully crafted piece of work which reinforces my goal of taking my NLP skill base to one which flies closer to yours. I’m embarking on a Master Pract in Jan 09 and am sure to compliment that course with more of your work, indirectly and hopefully directly at some point. I love your style.
Many thanks on some more shared work.
Robert said,
August 8, 2008 @ 4:38 pm
Jamie,
I can’t wait to put “..it’s not negotiable…” to use.
I’ll be using all of the techniques in this video with and for myself
and will probably be watching it several more times.
Also, several years ago, I wrote you about developing a
Sleight of Mouth program – I am anticipating its release.
Thanks and Bravo,
Robert
Ivan said,
August 8, 2008 @ 4:41 pm
Thanks Jamie; I read recently in an article on creativity that when presented with a test for creativity by NASA 5-year old children showed up as highly creative (98%). By the time they were 10 their scores had halved and by college this was down to 19%. Adults showed a creativity level of nearer 2%. The hypothesis was that we are conditioned by our education and society to conform and not to be creative – we don’t need to creat our own limiting beliefs – it’s done for us! Let’s all fight back!
Elisabeth Kuhn said,
August 8, 2008 @ 4:42 pm
Hi Jamie,
loved the video! Great questions for breaking through all
those limiting beliefs. I’m going to use them!
And the bouncer example was just too cool. Also the
one with your ex-boss. There’s probably a course in there –
how to get your boss to give you lots of money when you
leave? Wish I had had that before I left my job.
Thanks a million. Looking forward to the next one(s).
Elisabeth
http://www.myfavoriteselfhelpstuff.com
Shane said,
August 8, 2008 @ 4:45 pm
Great stuff,
its great when we can all share our Eureka moments,
Keep up the good work
Lindsey said,
August 8, 2008 @ 4:51 pm
Hi Jamie
Once again you have come up trumps – I feel that I know you personally now and look forward to meet you one day.
The very generous session was very thought provoking and I do recognise some of the limiting beliefs that I have taken on board about myself. Sleight of mouth s something that you really are great at, and it’s definatley something worth me spending time to practice. Did you recommend once to practise each day?
You asked for feedback – The content was brilliant, and I noticed that you hardly stopped for a new sentence. lots of “and” and is that intentional?
It was great that you kindly showed us all your books (do you speed read) and that you recommended specific books. I have read some of them (Richard Branson / Michael Neale) and they were great. I understand that you were videoing in your office. I wonder if the background can distract from listening and watching you.
I’d really like to learn more on:
Help change someone’s perception of another person
Changing submodalities
Sleight of Mouth patterns to practise
When are you next coming to CambsNLP? unfortunaltely I missed you when you came last year.
Best Regards and aagain thank you for your generosity
Lindsey
Cindy said,
August 8, 2008 @ 5:03 pm
Jamie,
I always look forward to getting your videos, but this time you’ve out done yourself. I have your audio cards and really enjoy learning from them. This video seems to pull them all together.
Great information!! I look forward to more.
Thank you!!
Paul said,
August 8, 2008 @ 5:06 pm
Hi Jamie
each time I hear or read anything of yours I get something new,
either in ideas or about myself.. and when I reread or listen again
there is always something else hidden away, or is that just me!
best wishes
Paul
djalal said,
August 8, 2008 @ 5:18 pm
hi jamie, i want to thank you first for all this amzing free courses you send us, and i really fell the beneficts of your teaching every moment of my life.
so i agree with your theory wich says that a limiting belief is just a belief itself, and i wonder how to totally isolate that limiting belief once and for all , in order to access to the deep essence of my energy, you know just like james bond character, who can turn any situation to his advantage, just by observing his environement thanks to his high consience level of his internal and external strong energies !!!
i know its a long shot, but i fell if you give me the answer i could be far more better than james bond himself ( that’s what i want !!! ).
thanks to you anyway jamie , and hope you’ll continue your incredible work with success and prosperity (you really deserve it! )
edward said,
August 8, 2008 @ 5:26 pm
great stuff, puts everything much clearer, thanks jamie.
Annemarie Rebel said,
August 8, 2008 @ 5:28 pm
Hi Jamie,
WOW that was amazing! I feel like I just had a personal coaching session with you…
So to complete that picture, I have a few things that I would like to ask:
For me the map is not so clear, I just dont really feel that map in me and I like to believe that I dont need one, because I dont want to be limited by it, so that metaphoor is not really getting into my brain. Is there any other way to explain /explore this?
Same here with the limiting beliefs when you first mentioned those I was like, well I dont have any, because that would limit me and I dont want that…I like to believe that as long as you really want it you can do anything.
So here I am sitting in the bahamas, but not really being happy and not doing the thing that I really want to do, which we explored with all the “what do you want” questions… so I figured there must be something why I am not there and I guess that would be limiting beliefs, but I just dont like the sound of that, when I asked myself what are my limiting beliefs I said I have none because that would not be very productive.
Eventually I wrote down some of my I can’ts let me share some of them
I dont have the money to go to a good NLP session
I cant get a loan for the project which is what I really want to do because I did call some banks and they dont give a loan without you having a house or something which I dont have.
So this is very real for me…
I would love to explore that a bit deeper to find other ways around those things, because I know that there are other ways, but I guess my brain doesnt really want to go there yet for some reason.
Also another thought I want to share with you is the fact that I always thought I should be able to coach myself, you see I know the questions and I know what to ask next, however for some reason that just doesnt work for me, ( I guess that is another limiting belief?)
So this is a great help, because I just pause the video and it feels like you are asking me personally these questions.
So thank you so much I really appreciate it!
Alex said,
August 8, 2008 @ 5:30 pm
Hello Jamie,
Thank you very much for this.
It’s came along at just the right time for me.Looking forwards to future posts from you.
bye for now,
Alex
Cristina said,
August 8, 2008 @ 5:30 pm
Hi Jamie,
thanks for this video! I knew most of the things from your emails or NLP tips you wrote for us, but it’s way better to hear them from you after reading them, than just reading them.
I think the one that will work for me is the “miracle” question you mentioned in the end. Thanks for sharing it
Tito said,
August 8, 2008 @ 5:35 pm
thanks for helping us continue building our knowledge to help ourselfs and other change their beliefs system in this case, disfunctional beliefs.
I hope you continue offering these type of free videos to help us become NLP practioners.
Great video!
Ecuador-South America
Pat said,
August 8, 2008 @ 5:45 pm
Hi Jamie,
I am about to start my NLP journey on a budget, although I have been an avid reader of your sight for quiet a while and purchased CDs. Cards ect. I thank you for making the experience so joyful.
Regards Pat
Simone said,
August 8, 2008 @ 5:54 pm
Hi Jamie
Very interesting a good insight into limiting beliefs I found it helpful for me peronally. Its great to help other people in therapy etc.but more often than not we need help ourselves. It isnt always easy to do as we think we should and understand our own limiting ways and negative patterns. So thank you and I will certainly listen to this again.
With kindest wishes
Simone
Elizabeth said,
August 8, 2008 @ 6:16 pm
Thank you Jamie for giving of yourself to share this with others. This exercise and the information is so valuable in opening one to self growth. I have been very interested in your information and presentation. I am a psychologist for 18 years and often think, “where do I want to go from here?” I really enjoy my work, but sometimes I feel stagnant and want a new direction. I am not sure what that is. These questions are very helpful. You obviously have worked very hard and have done very well. I know you are helping many people. Elizabeth
Aishling said,
August 8, 2008 @ 6:22 pm
Hi Jamie,
I have to say, amazing language you use to portray and help visualise stuff and you really truly come across so passionate. Well explained, thank you for sharing!
I noticed there are alot of usual questions one might hear right throughout their life, like ‘What do I want?’ ‘Why can’t I?’, bla bla… but I never really looked into these questions or read between the lines in such depth. You sem to have a way to shred the sentences up and bring it across in a more interesting way that actually makes us think properly about these and address them to the point.
I am very impressed and the whole NLP idea really intrigues me although I have only read a few things online about it, I feel very intune with it. Thank you again!
Aish
Stuart said,
August 8, 2008 @ 6:22 pm
Hi Jamie,
Yes I love your passion that alone is very powerful, and I will watch the vid again as I want to get greater insite to what you triggered for me. Thanks and the Cards are equaly amazing…
Eugene LAU said,
August 8, 2008 @ 6:23 pm
Thank you so much for this free video. I am revising my skills and knowledge on belief change this week and I am going to have a class on belief on tomorrow morning. I really appreciate your work and this coincidence. After becoming a practitioner, I often think that I am not really capable of being so because I have my own problems. Knowing that an alcoholic can be so successful, I would have a new evaluation on my own. I would also bring your suggested questions to my class.
Thank you again
Eugene
Janice C said,
August 8, 2008 @ 6:37 pm
Thanks Jamie,
This was one of those ‘what you need comes to you when you need it’ moments for me. I’m impressed with how much you packed into a 22 minute video but in such a relaxed way. My ‘I can’t’ was definiitely getting in the way of my ‘I want’ – I’m making friends with that positive intention and we are moving forward together as of now.
Namaste,
Janice C
Jane said,
August 8, 2008 @ 6:39 pm
Wow! I enjoyed that much more than I thought I would. It stimulated useful thoughts. However I wonder if you can say something about shifting your mindset when you are chronically ill and everything seems exhausting? I’ve been ill with various things since childhood and it has become a default position.
I know I have the ability to overcome weakness when I am strongly motivated, taking two years to do a one year postgrad degree for example. Now, having beaten five permanent disabilities, I’ve been stopped short by a labyrinthine inflammation for nearly a year. I know others with similar problems, but so much about NLP appears only suitable for able bodied people.
From what you have said it is probably a script written in childhood. Have you a question that will get past the defence mechanisms?
Thanks for all your lovely ideas. Jane xxx
shahrzad said,
August 8, 2008 @ 6:55 pm
thnks alot
ur gr8
June said,
August 8, 2008 @ 6:56 pm
I find it so refreshing that someone as yourself is so happy and willing to share your knowledge and experience of NLP. All to often, I find NLP ‘professionals’ want to keep their ’secrets’ to themselves (in GB at least). I am a practicing therapist and feel that NLP gives power and choice, and is for everyone.
Thank you.
Suvi said,
August 8, 2008 @ 6:59 pm
Hi Jamie! Thank you for this. I was interested in the books you mentioned. Would it be possible for you to list some of your favourites on this site? Thank you!
Geraldine said,
August 8, 2008 @ 7:07 pm
Thanks Jamie from sunny South Africa!
Your material is, as always, excellent. You inspire me no end, and I also realise whenever I read your newsletter or watch your clips, that it is always worthwhile going back to the basics of NLP and working through them again and again and again!
Wishing you all the best,
G
robert mertens said,
August 8, 2008 @ 7:08 pm
Thank you Jamie,
For your valuable video.
Perhaps you know the story of the famous scientist who was giving a lecture about the solar system, and how the various forces that hold the earth in its orbit work.
After the lecture, he was approached by a little old woman who said to him, “Sonny, you’ve got it all wrong. Every one knows that the earth is held on the shoulders of the giant, Atlas.”
So, the scientist asked a question to show her where she was wrong. “What then, he asked, is Atlas standing on?”
“On a giant turtle”, she replied.
“And, what’s under the turtle?”, he asked patiently.
“Why, another turtle, of course!”
“And what’s under that turtle?”
“Why, another turtle, of course!”
“And under that turtle?”
She then replied with an air of finality.
“Sonny, it’s turtles all the way down.”
Jamie, are beliefs like this, as well, do you think? Do you experience it all as “belief”, or do you sometimes experience “knowledge”? If you experience knowledge, is it different from “belief”. What happens when you penetrate the barrier of knowledge?
I sometimes express my self in pictures. Do you believe in visual beliefs? I am now going to my blog, http://e-collage.blogspot.com to put one up for you to see, if you wish. I call it “New Beginning”, for now.
With gratitude for sharing your knowledge and understanding, Robert
Shai said,
August 8, 2008 @ 7:22 pm
Hi Jamie,
Thank you for sharing your knowledge and insight.
This is very interesting, in the past few week I really debating with myself on exactly these 2 topics; changing be beliefs and choosing what I like to do with my life going forward. maybe Lau Tzu was right after all… “when the pupil is ready the teacher will appear.”
It seams to me that I need a motivation to change my beliefs to ones that logically make more sense and are more beneficial for me. I think that the lack of motivation is becuase I cannot decide what it is that I want for myself…
Thanks again,
Shai
Wojciech said,
August 8, 2008 @ 7:23 pm
Jamie, I love your way of doing this NLP stuff!
I wish I could afford a training with you some day
Warm regards from Poland,
Wojciech
Mahmoud Sadek said,
August 8, 2008 @ 7:35 pm
Greetings
Your way is very bright very intelligent very knolegeable it makes sense,but to be honest with u caution in my opinion should be applied just to keep out of danger.I think what u say is doable but preferably should be kept in the context of ‘Doing the best with the cards you are delt’.I’ve listened to your video twice and I’ll listen to it again, its valuable, but I think that the closest your beliefs are to the Truth,the better the results would be.What would u feel if u suddenly found Happiness?
Steve JEnkins said,
August 8, 2008 @ 7:36 pm
Jamie!
Thanks so much for the bouncer story. It reminds me of how tough it is (I am a recruiter) to have human resources give me the go ahead to recruit on openings they are NOT able to fill.
I will immediately use your words and I bet it will be effective.
How about, “I know that it is company policy not to use headhunters, but what would have to happen in order for us to begin working on this and be of value to your firm?
Steve
Barb said,
August 8, 2008 @ 7:38 pm
Jamie:
I recently discovered your website and have ordered all 5 decks of your cards.
My initial interest in NLP came from wanting to improve my skills as a salesperson. I ended up in sales as a result of people telling me how great I was with people, knew it was lucrative and have been doing it uncomfortably for over 20 years, knowing my heart and talents lie elsewhere. I completed 500 hours of training recently to become a hypnotherapist. My beliefs and spirituality are centered in the metaphysical and I am a constant student of information and reinforcement through reading and exposure to this teaching. I know from training it can not only lie in your intellect but must be attached to your emotions and belief that surround your thoughts. Your
information is great and it is one more step to bring me closer and a more effective hypnotherapist. My frustration lies in knowing what I know and taking action with confidence. Somewhere along the line, I have created my own doubts and fears as I was raised with parents that were supportive, encouraging and positive. Other people’s perception of me is one of a confident well adjusted woman but I know I still have many limiting beliefs I am working on. I want to help people get out of their own way and create the life they desire but I know I need to do this for myself as well. Listening to your story and others helps build that confidence that I can accomplish what I want as well. I want very much to add formalized NLP training to my learning experience but don’t have the funds currently to enroll in a program. Thank you for making your information available for me to continue on my path. The cards are great as it is helping me gain confidence with language to help increase my effectiveness for others. I am moving forward (slowly) in establishing my practice and your story and honesty helps serve as reinforcement as I step into something entirely new. Thank you again for sharing.
daniel said,
August 8, 2008 @ 7:55 pm
jamie,
your passion for the subject is inspiring and resonates with me. I feel like NLP is formally what i’ve been trying to do throughout my life. I have been successful at times, also with changing my own beliefs but still often feel like what i want to achieve is too surreal. Perhaps i could stop trying to be a bonsai and become a jungle.
By the way…i have quit smoking after 10 years not too long ago. One of my dearest friends is still a smoker but wishes to stop. How can i use NLP to allow him to feel some aversion to smoking? Also, what is a good way to anchor that aversion for him while simply speaking to him?
Dorothy said,
August 8, 2008 @ 7:56 pm
Hi Jamie,
I love the way you explain things.
Your post came at a great time (of course). Having discovered some new things about myself through the use of EFT (I greatly recommend this: http://www.emofree.com), your question about “I can’t” just brought my thinking further. Here is how it goes:
- I can’t fail because if I do people will know I am a fraud
- I can’t win because I am a fraud so it would not make sense for me to succeed.
Of course I am not a fraud. This all stems back from my birth and the fact that my mother lost a child before having me. I guess I decided to replace that child so my parents could be happy again. Ever since I have been afraid of being discovered and sent back. I am on to new great things now,because what I have been doing so far as a fraud was already not bad at all, thanks!
Dorothy
paul said,
August 8, 2008 @ 8:37 pm
Hi Jamie -
I’ve been a hypnotherapist for five years and have experienced a lot of informative teaching and processes from some truly amazing mentors and teachers. However, I can honestly say that, your methodology and approach is absolutely ‘pitch perfect’ in that, you not only impart valuable knowledge, in an easily grasped way, but also make it ’sticky’ by virtue of your enthusiasm for the subject.
Hats off to you!
paul.
Stephan Hodges said,
August 8, 2008 @ 8:48 pm
Of the many topics I’ve fantasized about seeing you explain, I have one that I know you have expertise in, but I only recall one mention of it in the talks I’ve bought from Salad.
The topic is kids, specifically young kids (my 4 year old granddaughter in this case) and, perhaps, helping them get over beliefs that both cause them distress, and make it hard on the parents.
An example: My granddaughter is 4, with a 1 year old brother. I’ve recently visited them for a couple weeks, and observed that every time a parent leaves (goes out of the house), she will first try and forbid them to go, then make them promise to return, and also often make them promise to return “before it get’s dark”, etc. I won’t go over all of the obvious items here (to make this shorter).
My question revolves around simplifying the language, questions, etc. to “talk with them”. I’m not an NLP practitioner, and anyways, I don’t actually live there. So, a couple of formula scripts would help out my daughter to start learning this, and to explore the issues with my granddaughter. Clear?
Anyway, that’s my wish for a follow up “20 minute” parenting video.
Ah, most important. Very many thanks for all the good things you’re doing to help others, to help us. Thanks!
Jelena said,
August 8, 2008 @ 8:50 pm
Dear Jamie,
thanks a lot, I find your emancipatory work really great and so much needed. Would also appreciate, some more focus on relationships, cause I think that on some level, it must be that I got used to believe that I can`t ever be happy and loved by a non-understandable creature – man – so as I am ( I also think that I am not alone in this regard, but it is more sincere to speak about yourself).
Or another suggestion: belief that I can never perform quite good at the moment, which also mostly serves to postpone the really good presentation ad inf. And it comes with the tendency to postpone all other seizable things as well and do it all together “some day”. Lasy beauty – so to say…
Many regards,
Jelena
Rich said,
August 8, 2008 @ 9:02 pm
I’m just impressed that uber-skilled NLP trainer extraordinaire Jamie Smart has a home
office as messy as mine!! There’s hope for me yet….;)
Javier said,
August 8, 2008 @ 9:30 pm
thanks. I think that the way to teach nlp in spanish is very diferent that in english, I think in english is very easy to understand despite my native language is spanish thanks so much
semsa said,
August 8, 2008 @ 10:06 pm
Dear Jamie,
) thank u for sharing… I have a daughter of 6 and I want to fill her consciousness with ” I can…”‘ s. I would appreciate if you could give some clues regarding this..
First of all I would like to thank you soo much for your company on my way. Your e-mails have been of great help and put me up on my feet again in hard times. This a-ha moment has a lot to think about and really filled me up with many questions and wonders; as you always do
Thanks
Stephan said,
August 8, 2008 @ 10:34 pm
Dear Jamie,
It was great to have all the emails summed up in a video. It has been a pleasure to read your emails since 2003. The new site looks great.
Please accept some advice on the way your home office furniture is placed. You should change the way your desk is facing so that you have the back to the wall and have a clear view of the door.
That way the day light would “hit” the desk from the left. The feng shui will work for you and that way you can focus on the work at the PC, be it Salad or anything else. Karen Kingston’s book “Clear your clutter with Feng Shui” can be highly recommended. A second edition is coming out later in 2008. The website is http://www.spaceclearing.com
All the best from Australia,
Stephan
Maija said,
August 8, 2008 @ 10:36 pm
Hi Jamie!
I loved and appreciated every word in your video. You are a great storry teller and a very wise one! I felt really touched by your heart felt words. And loved your book shelf too!!!
I wil be your follower and will try to be good one. It is so inspireing!
Thank you so much for being here and sharing all your knowledge and believes!
It is really priceless!
Sincerely, Maija.
Ben said,
August 8, 2008 @ 10:48 pm
Great as always, your contagious, and i thank you.
Lisa Ann said,
August 8, 2008 @ 10:48 pm
Dear Jamie,
thank you for this wonderful recording of your insights and talents. You are a kind soul and it comes through on your recording. It was very encouraging to watch this. I want to get a handle on all of those questions you asked. Is it possible to get them in written form so that I can take the time I need to answer those questions for myself. You have my email . I look forward to hearing from you again and to many more enriching NLP trainings such as the one you just shared.
Thank you so much.
Lisa Ann
Max Freemynd said,
August 8, 2008 @ 11:07 pm
Hi Jamie, Great stuff.
I love the use of stories in this video, but before I get into that I want to thank you for this “conversational Belief Change” technique and I’ll definitely be getting the book “Sleight of Mouth”. Back to the stories I love how you split them, and leave listeners without finishing the punch line to keep them (us) curious about what you are about to say and being more receptive to it. It’s a fantastic skill and I’m trying to get plenty of practice. You and my NLP trainer (I’m taking the prac training now) are my fountains of excellence and the concierges to my dreams.
Justine said,
August 8, 2008 @ 11:16 pm
Hi Jamie,
Since I receive your newsletter and all the tips and handouts you give on NLP, I thought I knew who you were, at least I had an image of you. But now that I have seen this clip I must say I am impressed with the personal sharing you did about your drinking history… My childhood was largely dominated by my fathers drinking problem and had brought him and his loved ones great misery and hurt. So for you to make the decision to stop and decide that that is not the road you want to travel, shows great insight and courage. I applaude you for that and for the sheer passion and pleasure you generate in your work! Thank you for being so inspiring.
Justine Kluen
Pearl said,
August 9, 2008 @ 12:03 am
If the world would only know that positive self talk is the number one to your health and happy life. Try to change negative self thalk to positive affermations or self talk have you ever listen to your self and others around you most of the time it is negative. Try to change that behavior by changing it to positive self talk and you will see the energy and the beauty that awaites you.
Shanika said,
August 9, 2008 @ 12:06 am
I listened to that question you gave the bouncer carefully. And I noticed you had an embedded command, a reason why, and and you transitioned his truth (it’s not negotiable), into your but transition to get an opening for an embedded command and the reason why attached to it.
Awesome way to just sneak that in there. And I was catching your nested loops as well to keep people interested in all the stories you combined with your lessons. Very powerful indeed. I’ll be watching this more to break down everything further, but it was a great lesson. And a wonderful aid in my studies to break down your conversation. Thanks
Annette said,
August 9, 2008 @ 1:14 am
Love your work Jamie.
With gratitude
AJ
RUTH DUFFIELD said,
August 9, 2008 @ 2:18 am
Thank you Jamie, that was very interesting and informative.
I particularly liked your sleight of mouth ‘I know it is non-negotiable, but what would have to happen for you to let us in?
I am looking forward to you explaining it in more detail.
Great exercises.
Kind regards.
Ruth
Surrey
Chris Muir said,
August 9, 2008 @ 3:10 am
Thank You. your work is brilliant. I am hard of hearing, and find it very difficult understanding you. can you speak a little slower and more direct into the microphone. Best wishes Chris
Kumar said,
August 9, 2008 @ 3:43 am
It is a great service to humanity dear Jamie!
Thanks a lot for the wisdom that you communicate to so many people to eliminate the limiting beliefs! It is something marvelous.
John said,
August 9, 2008 @ 3:47 am
Hi Jamie,
I really enjoyed these last 22+ minutes. What struck me was how you somehow captivated me with your passion and sincerity.
I have played with the idea of becoming a professional NLP practitioner – but not clearly having convinced myself of my true motives.
Like most people I would want to be involved in something I truly like doing and making a good living at it, at the same time.
With worldwide economic collapse seeming to stare us all in the face I’m working a job that I’m good at – to pay the bills, but “is not really me”, and something inside of me is very sad.
I’m glad you touched upon that aspect of our daily lives for it’s certain that I am not alone.
My main interest is to become so adept at this science that I can positively influence others’ lives.
I realize I’m rambling. I just wanted to acknowledge your work and express my heartfelt gratitude to you.
John Thomas said,
August 9, 2008 @ 3:52 am
Very nicely done, Jamie.
Hopefully you’ll be posting more videos and blog posts.
Quick question: I noticed the link for the rss feed for the comments, but I didn’t see it for the actual posts. Did I miss the one for the posts? Will you add one?
Thanks,
- John
Bella said,
August 9, 2008 @ 3:59 am
More power to you! Many thanks for this and looking forward to more.
Hardy said,
August 9, 2008 @ 4:39 am
Jamie, your words have always made sense to me . . . the subject of thoughts, beliefs, visualising, healing, wholistic view . . . these are subjects of interest. What you put down as a pointer to ask ‘what do I really want?’ is just one step short of the highest meditation form . . . sit and ask yourself repeatedly “who am I?” . . . . I’m Jamie of-course . . . hmm! but who am I . . .
. . . . carry that query to its source and watch what unfolds for you!!
Belief busting and unravelling this entire mystique of the self is really the only frontier to attend to.
Thank you Jamie – I certainly enjoy your work. Appreciate your keeping me posted despite my not really being a commercial viability for you . . .yet!!
Warm regards,
hardy.
Hardy said,
August 9, 2008 @ 4:45 am
Jamie,
gimme a thought on establishing a centre for training in India . . New Delhi.
The inclination and the resources should materialise!
Warmly,
hardy
racha said,
August 9, 2008 @ 5:36 am
Hi
I wanted to thank you for given us lots of imprtant and effective informatios.
I am trying on my own to improve my unconciousness, and i think that it is working in a way.In the meanwhile i have a small problems to deal with and i am trying to solve that, and with your help i could get over this thing.
so thank you very much
you are a gifted person
Best reguards
Racha Itani
Richard said,
August 9, 2008 @ 5:36 am
Great Jamie,
Can see a whole lot of things in what you were saying. Good engaging nested stories that I only realised when you got back to the bouncer story ending. Excellent stuff.
‘Sleight of Mouth’ does have some negative connotations which is why Michael Hall’s book on Communication Magic calls it Mind-Lines. (That book is interesting too, albeit somewhat repetitive and academic feeling.) Would be good to discuss this aspect more. Like how do you convince a close friend that you are not going to manipulate them, consciously or unconsciously?
shazia said,
August 9, 2008 @ 6:42 am
Thanks Jamie,
I strongly feel that you sending me your MARVELLOUS video was no accident but my destiny. I thoroughly enjoyed it and it has made my life journey much more worthwhile.
I am much more clearer in my mind now about my life and how i should go about it.
Thanks again.
Lai Chin said,
August 9, 2008 @ 7:34 am
Hi Jamie,
Greetings from the Far East.
Your video came at just the right time as 08.08.08 was my last day at work in the organisation that I have been attached to for the last 13 years and I am finally venturing out to do my own thing. Thanks for the encouraging story as I try to overcome my fear of being out on my own.
Have a great day.
Andrew said,
August 9, 2008 @ 8:06 am
Hi Jamie
Once again.. youv’e come up with genius words just at the right time… I read your email (as I always do…) followed the link, watched, the video and wow… I had a limiting belief.. past tense…it’s gone……Thanks again
Andrew
Shane said,
August 9, 2008 @ 9:49 am
Jamie
first time I ve seen or heard you, normally just the sales stuff emails!
However, this video, your own acceptance of previous issues, and how you and NLP have moved you on are inspiring.
I have been a nurse for 15 years, then moved into construction (!) to pay the bills but miss helping people, so am booked on a practitioner course, and your passion is genuinley inspiring- thank you so much.
Sali said,
August 9, 2008 @ 11:21 am
Thanks as ever Jamie
I visit salad in some shape or form several times a week but this has been the best yet
Keeping myself immersed in what’s happening – keeping it fresh – makes more difference to my own practice than anything else and I really value your continuing contribution.
I will be playing this video many times and using your questions to help myself take my next steps with NLP.
It’s going to make many differences.
Keep up the great work.
Diane L Wood said,
August 9, 2008 @ 11:56 am
Hi Jamie,
thanks for your informative, educating video.
For years I’ve used hypnotherapy and EFT to change negative thought patterns with a goal of being who I want to be.
Your videod instructions triggered something which I’m sure is the missing element that can finally bring about my intended change.
It’s like dark spot in my efforts is now light.
Again many thanks
Diane
PS I really enjoy reading your newsletters too! Your generosity in sharing this info is wonderful.
Tracy Lyn said,
August 9, 2008 @ 12:19 pm
Thank you for this informative video. Your contribution is inspirational.
Tony said,
August 9, 2008 @ 12:49 pm
Hi Jaime,
(that’s jamie in spanish!!). I have had this belief that i can only learn Spanish if i Live in the country to conversation standard..I now know that this is not true and it was a limiiting belief.
As you say, once we challenge our beliefs and don’t allow our initial thoughts and feelings to control us, we are on the way to making a change!!!
Thanks again for this and look forward to seeing you again sometime in the future!!
Regards
Tony.
bernard said,
August 9, 2008 @ 12:57 pm
Hi Jamie,
A wonderful metaphorical presentation from which everybody can benefit. It also takes great courage to open your heart to the world, this makes you really special!
You mentioned distillation of material or a key to belief change. To those who are interested in other areas of learning, keys or the beginning of a process is a jump start and avoids unnecessary waste of learning time. However, to fully understand the importance of the key, one has to appreciate the whole subject matter. One is very fortunate to meet the right teacher who can communicate this. You are one of those I have met/come across in my life.
To give you an example what I am talking about in other areas is, for instance drawing or painting: The key is the first line. In sculpture it is the first plane. In a letter it is the first sentence, and so I could go on. Everything that follows relates to the first thought followed by action.
Kind regards.
Darko said,
August 9, 2008 @ 12:58 pm
Hi Jamie….
It is honer to know someone like you. Thank you very much for this video. It is great. I’ve read introducing NLP by Joseph O’Coner and John Seymure and thats all. I love iy but I am 18 so curentlly I can’t afford any trainning or seminar. It’s so great to hear it from somebody because you can learn to drive only by a book and without instructor…
Darko said,
August 9, 2008 @ 1:00 pm
I wanted to say: You can’t learn to drive only by a book and without instructor…
Speed can be terrible thing:)
Bill said,
August 9, 2008 @ 1:26 pm
So sorry! But nothing showed up on my screen!! No place to hit play or anything.
daryll.c said,
August 9, 2008 @ 1:35 pm
clear and concise explanation of a subject too many over people get over complicated with. simple words and easy to understand definitions.you are a class, skilled communicator. well done Jamie and thanks for your blog and ‘youtube’ casts, brill.!!
Claire Godwin said,
August 9, 2008 @ 2:52 pm
… just what I needed today
Thank you
Claire
Adey said,
August 9, 2008 @ 3:05 pm
Very interesting, thanks, and well explained. I was surprised how stimulating the questions are – they really get you to think out of the box. Look forward to more insights into NLP
tx
Andrew said,
August 9, 2008 @ 3:05 pm
Hello Jamie,
I didn’t really believe I could do this NLP stuff.
Your genuineness, obvious belief and eagerness and generosity to communicate your learning have really done it for me. I’m totally sold on getting in deep into the subject.
Thanks ever so much!
BENJAMIN A ANYANAH said,
August 9, 2008 @ 4:00 pm
This is mind provoking and it have the tendencies necessary to awaken most sleeping giants. Keep it up and remember me
FROM GHANA WEST AFRICA
Martyn said,
August 9, 2008 @ 5:06 pm
Hi Jamie,
Many thanks for this, really awsome information on our inner beliefs!
For me it has come at a major crossroads in my life one that I know is making many changes in how I pereceive my world and the world around me.
I am going on holiday soon and will definitely be asking myself those questions.
Keep up the brilliant work!
Martyn
Vince said,
August 9, 2008 @ 5:29 pm
Excellent videoblog post Jamie. I’m recommending this to anyone who wishes to improve themselves in any area of their life.
Donna said,
August 9, 2008 @ 7:31 pm
Hi Jamie
Really enjoyed the video, I am just embarking on my NLP journey and so far it is very enlightening and I am really looking forward to where it will take me.
Your video is really good and just fits in with where I am at right now, thanks for sharing.
Donna
Isra' said,
August 9, 2008 @ 7:38 pm
Hi Jamie,
I loved your way that you let me feel that you own the world..
I believe im my self but I didn’t get yet what I want.. i’m successfull in my job but till now I didn’t get what I want. I tried many many times but I’m wondering if Luck has a place on it? Can you tell me is there is a relation between luck and to get what I want?
Thank you so much for your vid It was helpfull.
Isra’
Steve said,
August 9, 2008 @ 8:13 pm
Hi Jamie
great positive stuff
thanks
steve
chiwara said,
August 9, 2008 @ 8:16 pm
very, very interesting please define NLP this is all new to me but really intrigeing.
chiwara said,
August 9, 2008 @ 8:18 pm
were can I go to read up about NLP to really engage my being? This stuff is facinateing!!
Jane said,
August 9, 2008 @ 9:19 pm
Excellent reminders. You are a Master for sure, Jamie. Your passion for
NLP and sharing is clearly evident.
Marvellous questions to ask oneself, targeted to different aspects and perseptions of our varying beliefs.
Thank You for sharing, Jamie
Bassam Qadadeh said,
August 9, 2008 @ 9:37 pm
Thank you jams for this peace of knowledge I believe in each ward that you said
I have used this technique for several months and I could feel the change even though I know I am not perfect’
I have some things that I am happy about but I keep telling my self that I am accepting these thing and I am going to develop them, I am working on some of them right now but I have to work more and more and I am satisfied about that.
My question is that I have some bad habits and I am not doing any think to change I am not sure that I had to, so what do you advice shall I convince and talk to my un consciences and start to change them, I believe that I can talk positively to my self and I can convince my self with any thing that I want to.
I have changed many believes and I believe that I could change any believe of mine and I can help people around to change there believes to positive one.
Thanks again for this audio presentation it was really great and I have receive a new good ideas that my help me in controlling my life more and more and could help me in achieving my goals
Ray said,
August 9, 2008 @ 10:41 pm
Hiyah Jamie
Excellent video,after training with Richard Bandler and and experiencing the way he uses
language that made me so want to be able to use sleight of mouth patterns the way he
does.If my memory serves me correctly he said that he no longer uses older models
like six step reframing using “sleight of mouth” instead,they are quicker.They also
bypass a lot of the fears and misconceptions about NLP/hypnosis that people have
allowing you to “lets just have a chat” and assisting them.Your video taught me a few
different ways to ask questions as well.Great stuff.Your books you showed,love Michael
Neils work,Robert Anton Wilson (may the Goddess rest his soles) a genius,4 hour
working week love it,Osho lovely spiritual trickster.
Lots of other things i would like to learn.
Some effective self hypnosis techniques.Time distortion especially to accelerate learning
NLP and hypnosis.Hypnotic ways to achieve a very uptime state,see more,hear more,feel
more.I’ve seen RB use language to take people back and forward along a timeline adding
resources,disassociating and reassociating them in a sentence or two,brief therapy or
torpedo therapy,lets have that skill as well.I would like to learn modelling properly,not the
stratergy stuff that keeps been diguised as modelling.I want to learn all of NLP PASSIONATELY,i’m loving it.
More please Jamie
Thanks for taking the time to do this,
Ray
Linda said,
August 9, 2008 @ 10:48 pm
Thanks again Jaimie,
I have gone past my master NLP training, but I still find that you offer me help when I feel overwhelmed with information, but lacking the practical application I need.
I loved this video.
Wishing you all the best,
Linda
lily said,
August 9, 2008 @ 11:53 pm
Hi Jamie, We (you and me) have been together on this acreen quiet a while now. Since I am an NLP trainer myself and Time Line Therapy master trainer, it is always interesting to hear other NLP brains working and some time to pick up their brains. That is what I am going to do next time when I teach or with a client. This twenty minutes put together the stuff, I thought I know so well, in a way that makes everything simple and very accessible, to me as atrainer and to the students. In Time Line Therapy we have wonderful way to work with limiting beliefs, nevertheless your way of asking questions is amazing. Thank you. Looking forward to hear from you. Lily
Phil said,
August 9, 2008 @ 11:57 pm
Jamie,
Very good video.
There is an amazing man that I have worked with who practices brief therapy. He is:
http://www.rubinbattino.com
That is where I first learned the “miracle question.” Powerful stuff.
Check out my blog! Life is amazing!
Cheers,
Phil
Tom said,
August 10, 2008 @ 12:07 am
Jamie,
Great video. I particularly liked what you did combining slight of mouth and conversational hypnosis patterns in the bouncer story. Would love to hear you parse that out for us some time soon because its important to understand how the patterns work together.
Looking forward to your next video.
Tom
Michael said,
August 10, 2008 @ 12:31 am
How very very lovely.. I so enjoyed that clip! Sittin’ grinnin’ at the screen, right now…
Garry said,
August 10, 2008 @ 12:34 am
Jamie
Great video , perfect timing. Been going through my own personal life changing events, doing a lot of reflection and fighting natural depression. Deep down I know that hope, happiness and opportunity is attainable, just have to recognize the avenue to pursue. Your video seems to be shining a light of guidance to where I want/need to be.
Thank you
Garry
Tina Michelle said,
August 10, 2008 @ 12:42 am
i love this content Jamie! You are such an effortless genius/
Tina M
M said,
August 10, 2008 @ 12:55 am
Jamie,
Thanks for the video. I’d like to be able to have it on my iPod, though, so I can listen to it several times and really “get” what you’re saying. Is there anywhere the video can be downloaded?
Thanks!
M
Hadar said,
August 10, 2008 @ 1:44 am
thank you for coming at the right time for me. I have been umming and arring about making a great change in my life. And every time I moved forward, I had either a headache or something to hold me back. I now feel more confident to go forward, so what if I’m not perfect, I’ll learn to be better through the process. At least I’m doing it.
thanks, looking forward to more.
Amelia said,
August 10, 2008 @ 2:07 am
Thanks so much Jamie. I had dropped NLP until I found your letter in the inbox, and felt a very POWERFUL urge to read it. Well, it was mind blowing. I was able to recognize my limiting beliefs. I have a strange phobia, I’m afraid of walking, yes, WALKING if there isn’t somebody with to help me and see I don’t fall. If I fall, I’ll break my bones, and if I break my bones…very limiting beliefs that I know recognize for what they are and why they are there. Also very limiting is my belief that I won’t be able to visit the UK again because of the phobia and financial issues.I’m a retired schoolteacher living on a pension. This phobia of mine got very strong after my husband’s death and two surgeries I underwent last December.
Looking forward to your next video and wishing you all the best,
Amelia
Emily Hufschmidt said,
August 10, 2008 @ 2:12 am
Wow, those are some powerful questions. I would want to own a lovely home on the Southern California coastline. I would know when I had it, because I would wake up to the sound of crashing Pacific surf and the screeching of seagulls outside my window. I would climb out of my California King freeflow waterbed and throw open the window to the fragrance of the ocean and the temperate breeze coming through my window. I would want my own hypnosis program. I would know I had it when I wake up to my assistant placing a tray on my bed containing a fabulous breakfast and, as I sip my cappacino, reminding me to dress in something comfortable for my midmorning flight to my show in Houston, or Boston or wherever I happen to be going that day. I would know by the joyful feeling when one of my audience comes up and hugs me, telling me that I’ve been a help and a blessing, and that my CDs have helped ease the pain of a loved one at home.
I would want to have my body in excellent physical condition, and the lines disappeared from my forehead. I would know I had it when my husband grins to see the longing look on a young man, as he regards me on stage, and when I look in the mirror and feel a joyful confidence that I look my best in years. I would know when I can walk into a high-end shop and buy stunning clothing right off the rack.
It’s okay if I don’t get it, even though it would please me when I do.
It doesn’t mean anything about me, whether I get it or not. It’s fun to pretend in my mind that I’m there, front and center, and fully loving every instant of it. That’s the bemused look I have on my face during a dull sermon or a boring class. Fortunately, Jamie, none of your classes are boring. You rock.
Aleksandar said,
August 10, 2008 @ 2:19 am
Hi Jamie,
Really great video! Interesting is that I spontaneusly started to use these stuff a few years ago, not knowing it at all. Since than I stopped making long-term plans. Since than everything started to turn out better then I could even imagine.
Samir said,
August 10, 2008 @ 2:36 am
Thanks for sharing, came across as a vry sincere efort to share stuff. It was good ood for thought and made you look human. I mean someone who has his own struggles and continues to learn and teach…….cheers.
Dan said,
August 10, 2008 @ 3:12 am
Jamie:
Thanks for your generosity, honesty, and clarity of communication.
Looking forward to more training!
Best,
Dan
Tony said,
August 10, 2008 @ 3:51 am
Hi Jaime,
Many thanks for your very illuminating video presentation.
God bless
Tony
elle said,
August 10, 2008 @ 4:11 am
Jamie -
So funny to see your face for the first time. I thought you were a young woman with short brown hair! How funny. I have a question. I have sabotagued (sp) myself in so many ways and I can see how I have done it for years and years and years but I keep doing it and I would like to stop. I don’t know how to stop. I don’t know exactly why I do it. Sometimes I know I am doing it but it doesn’t make a difference that I know it seems out of my control. Any suggestions.
elle
susan said,
August 10, 2008 @ 4:48 am
Jamie
I liked your skillful use of language patterns. Would love to hear you unpack that.
Best
Susan
Mike said,
August 10, 2008 @ 5:19 am
That’s quite a pile of ‘Thank you’s and comments received so far in just 2 days… Impressive. I don’t frequently leave comments myself… but here is one:
I have received your emails inviting purchases etc, and nearly didn’t go for this link – suspicious soul that I am – because I just hate spam, and ‘hard sell’ and stuff like that — so I was wondering – ‘What’s the catch?’.
So far — I’m just very glad I took the step (yes, simple, wasn’t it?) and watched the vid – ‘actually, ran it several times as I’m doing other stuff at the same time) – you have a great story-teller manner and very comfortable approach. But some bits I’m going to have to jot down and work on …
– those questions…! – hmmm! Wonder what might come up! —
So – I am looking forward to your follow-ups – and if these remain catch-free as well, as similar free blog videos – well, I’ll be ‘right chuffed’!.
Am well impressed and well pleased – and hoping v. much that this remains a freebie of great sharing … and that I never DO find ‘the catch’!
Thanks,
Mike
Missy said,
August 10, 2008 @ 6:51 am
Jamie,
Thank you so very much for sharing this video with me. I’m new to NLP and I’m becoming more curious about it based off of the information that you shared in the video. I had an a-ha moment regarding limiting beliefs and my perception. Wow! I’ve been searching for an answer and I got more clarity based off of the conversation you just shared.
Thanks again,
Missy
Bem Paragas said,
August 10, 2008 @ 7:09 am
Jamie,
Ang galing! That means “you’re great!” in Filipino. I like the part wherein you were able to ask different kinds of questions to help come up with the right answer…just like peeling an onion. I have this limiting belief that “people are that great because of how they were raised up!” And if not…you just been lucky. I am really learning a lot from you and I appreciate your passion. I hope to hear from you more.
Bye!
Natalja said,
August 10, 2008 @ 7:37 am
Hi,Jamie.Thank you so much for a very inspiring material.
I have been working with NLP ideas since 1995 and it is reallly
powerful tool in learning and teaching the languages.
Right you are saying”If you really want something you’ll get it”.
I have got very delicious food for thought thanks to you.
I would like to be fed in future.
Keep creating.
Best wishes to you.
Natalja
Emil said,
August 10, 2008 @ 8:08 am
hello Jamie,
Simply fantastic…keep it coming.
All the best…
Emil
Nindi said,
August 10, 2008 @ 8:42 am
Jamie,
Thanks for sharing this useful information with your readers….it was awesome and very helpful…look forward to your new video!!!
Nindi
shahrzad said,
August 10, 2008 @ 8:45 am
Dear Sir
i am in iran and in here the speed is very slow so i cannot watch the videos i was wondering if u could just do me a favour and send me the postscrip.
Sorry
With the best wishes
Shahrzad
Charnita said,
August 10, 2008 @ 8:54 am
Thanks for everything…
The powerful belief tracking questions and the entire bibliography:)
stay lucky!
Robert Snow said,
August 10, 2008 @ 8:56 am
Hi Jamie
I love this stuff and I find it so effective. Some stuff in there that I will be excited using. All the best my friend.
Rob Snow
Life Coach
http://www.alacusht-inspirations.co.uk
Paul said,
August 10, 2008 @ 9:04 am
I am interested in the way you said you let your subconscious communicate with the bouncer to get the desired outcome. This technique is also called ‘winging it’ often used by speakers at seminars. Some outcomes are great and some are hopeless.
How do you know your subconscious will communicate to get the desired outcome for the conscious? The subconscious may have the desired outcome to give the conscious a smack in the face. I know, I hit my head a few times until I realised what was going on. I am sure you may have had a similar experience.
There may be a fine line between the touchy feely new age process and an excellent communication process. Good on you for putting it out there and asking for feedback.
russ said,
August 10, 2008 @ 10:02 am
Jamie fella you’re the man, i gotta tell ya…i got up this morning watched a little of the olympics
went to my mail, saw your entry, nice haircut by the way -) saw sleight of mouth patterns menitioned, (interested) saw vid 20 + mins, internaly groaned as in can i afford that kind of time, do i want to watch 20 mins on a bright sunny sunday morning as so much to do and enjoy. ok decsion made why? because i like you. (people have the funniest decison making strategies do they not? Outcome…i loved it and got lot out of it. 20 mins was enuf for me though.
Thanks Jamie…something good about you fella your gonnal go a long, long way, hope you prepared for the ride
big success jamie to you and salad
keep givin us great, real time usable info and strategies for change
Russ (unstoppable dreams) Meyers
Sandi said,
August 10, 2008 @ 10:36 am
Dear Jamie
I’m very new at this and being retired and on a fixed pension, I would like to thank you so very much for your free sessions. Where do I start to get to know more about NLP ? I live in Cyprus so seminars are out and books cost a fortune to have sent over. Also, everything I’ve downloaded from the net so far is written by men, are there any women in this field ?
Best wishes
Sandi
Horea said,
August 10, 2008 @ 10:36 am
let’s stay in touch. I see nice development for me sharing with you “beliefs”. I just start a NLP Coaching training – here in Romania – with Ms Nananda Nielsen, president IAC. There are a lot of nice things happen with me and I would not be sad if some of them should not be with me soon.
Jozie said,
August 10, 2008 @ 10:39 am
Hi Jamie
Thank you that video came at just the right time for me:-)
Nicolas Criblez said,
August 10, 2008 @ 10:40 am
Thank you so much Jamie!!
Back on track once again!
Jim said,
August 10, 2008 @ 11:42 am
Hi Jamie,
fascinating stuff, thanks for doing it.
I love to write songs and would love to play them live but due to my shyness and fear of public performing I am not doing this. So any help to overcome this would be appreciated.
Looking forward to more info, thanks again.
peter said,
August 10, 2008 @ 12:29 pm
Hi J
interesting reaffirming video. I am a coach but still studying for certification in the integral coaching methodolgy in Cape Town with a program affililiated to New Ventures West . Your clip reaffirmed the need for the coaches own continuous reaffirming and re learning, including the principles of NLP as an effective method for creating the shift . ‘You are what you say’ is another fab book on langauge as a tool I dongt know if you know of it . One of the co Authors is Budd (initial ? ) The integral coaching method also uses the body as an instrument for change , awakeing the subconscious
Thanks for sharing
Peter
Yvonne said,
August 10, 2008 @ 12:29 pm
Thanks Jamie, you are so generous, sharing your skills with us. The video has already helped me by making me rethink my limiting beliefs and realising just how ‘deeply’ they are set in me brain!. Look forward to your next video.
Yvonne
Serg said,
August 10, 2008 @ 12:33 pm
Hi Jamie! This video is remarkable! I’d already read something similar that you told, but it was very interesting watch your masterpiece. Thank you for your letters!:)
Maryka said,
August 10, 2008 @ 12:40 pm
hi Jamie,
That was an amazing video, it’s just what i needed to hear. I live in Tasmania, Australia and
access to this type of material is minimal. I loved the bouncer story.
Thank you and best wishes, looking forward to hearing more.
Cheers
Maryka
William said,
August 10, 2008 @ 12:53 pm
Thank you Jamie.
I have finally found the missing link for most all of my dealings with not only the people that are most important to me, (the people in my life that turn to me for council and the people at work I interface with on a professional level), as well as correcting my own, “programing.”
Thank you ever so much. I look foreward anxiously to more of your lessons. May God bless and keep you for providing such a wonderfull gift.
In Solidarity
William
Grainne Fox said,
August 10, 2008 @ 12:58 pm
Hi Jamie,
I have been practising NLP for the last year, but previous to that I have always been interesed in the subconscious mind and what it can achieve for us. I am a holistic dietics/nutritionist, have been recently using your salad cards in my consultations with clients in my workplace, you also mentioned somewhere along the line to watch the eyes and the body movements, and minic their postures, I have just been truly amazed at the information they are giving me. Its quite uncanny, you really do not have to do much work at all. Its so simple to build up a rapour with your client, and you can physically see them changing even before they leave the office. This is one area that I have always been interested in, but as I watched your video regarding limiting beliefs I can identify that I have those limiting beliefs in some area’s of my life that need work on. Client have asked me “Are you a counsellour” “Well you should be, as you are very good” so now I have to ask the questions?
Over the years I have changed a number of beliefs about myself, and I love the way you spoke about our Maps, and that our maps are out of touch with the reality of the situation, which is quite true, but as you say there is always a positive intention thats behind it, the video has raised more questions for me which I find very interesting and look forward to putting into practise the questions that you have armed me with. Very good work, loved the piece about the radio station interviewee.
Thanks
Grainne
jayantha said,
August 10, 2008 @ 2:47 pm
Dear Jamie,
Thanks very much for the shared knowledge and wisdom.I want to get to know more about how these techniques could be used in training at workplace and the workplace to me more effective with people who are enlightent with themselves.
Wish you all the best!!!
Jayantha
Pete said,
August 10, 2008 @ 3:17 pm
Effortless emancipation from limiting beliefs – and a way forward. Awesome invitation, Jamie – thanks
Praveer
marco said,
August 10, 2008 @ 4:48 pm
Hi to all
Thanks to Jamie for this compressed pearl of nlp patterns. And for the belief, wich i share,
that all of these are so natural for us, but sometimes it seems that we have to learn
backwards and with this i mean as if we didn`t know anithing about them, just to realize
we knew all of them afterwards, and say :”but… i do this all the time, and didn´t notice that
is called such and such, and works this way.”
Because we all have this capacities and powers awaiting for us to call for them.
Thak you again Jamie, and i look forward to see the rest.
Wish you well to all of you.
Ruth said,
August 10, 2008 @ 5:04 pm
Thanks for a very cool video.
As ever very useful stuff and its very generous for you to share it.
All the very best to you Jamie, Cheers Ruth.
Gilles said,
August 10, 2008 @ 6:00 pm
Learning to work with your fears is one of the most difficult tasks in my experience. Those fears are often patterns that have repeated themselves all throughout your life.
I love your approach and sincerity in delivering your stories. I also recognize the open and closed loops in your story telling.
What I have found difficult is that I have understood many of the principles of NLP in a intellecual way, but application to my personal life still eludes me.
With your help, I’ll keep on trying.
Hayden said,
August 10, 2008 @ 6:04 pm
Dear Jamie
I am looking foward to learn more.
Shirley said,
August 10, 2008 @ 6:08 pm
Hi Jamie,
over the years I have enjoyed your products and emails, thanks for the link to your insperation, but you know it is an ancient system used for centuries by people in power and those who have a creater understanding of the spirit mind.
Well done for your change you have made and your continued work.
As a Meridian therapist have you tried EFT emofree.com that would blow your mind away too.
love and best wishes Shirley
Adriana said,
August 10, 2008 @ 6:25 pm
Hello jamie
Thank you for share your knowledge with the world, in that way we can understand ourself better as a human being and be a better person and have a better world with happines and peace.
I will like to know about hipnosis ericksonian.
Thank you so much, god bless you
Adriana
Sam said,
August 10, 2008 @ 7:14 pm
Hi Jamie,
I really like the way that you have structures this from a meta perspective and I hope that you don’t mind me saying. You start with a story to open a loop in the initial video. Of course, this works really great because open loops build anticipation among other things. And, in order to close the loop you have to submit to the auto responder and get to the rest of the video. Fantastic!
I am curious as to whether or not you have any plans to teach a course on how to do this type of internet marketing with other NLP skills?
Thanks,
Sam
Ryan said,
August 10, 2008 @ 7:30 pm
Hi Jamie,
Thanks for this,its really powerfull stuff. I just wanted to let you know that you have been the catalyst in my journey into NLP. After downloading the salad mp3 seminars. Hopefuly I will be attending one in the near future. Also, thanks for the reccomended books, I will be sure to check them out.
Kind Regards
Ryan
Yehuda Kramer said,
August 10, 2008 @ 7:41 pm
Dear Jamie,
Thank you very much for sharing these important tools. All the tools that you can give to help people realize their limitations and overcome them will be greatly appreciated. If you make the tools easier to understand more people will benefit from your wisdom.
Can’t wait for the next part,
Yehuda
Dianna said,
August 10, 2008 @ 7:47 pm
You are Amazing!!!! Thank you. More! More! More! Total answer to prayer!
Michelle said,
August 10, 2008 @ 9:21 pm
Hello Jamie
Many thanks for yet another powerful concept – I seem to get very excited each time I hear one of your ‘nuggets’!
I do have a question though – with regards your Bouncer story – has any research been done into the amount of times this speech pattern actually translates into getting what you want, vs a strike out?! Would it not depend on timing/ mood/luck/ the other persons frame of mind/ etc?
Thank you again so much for your sharing of wisdom, and the belief you have in this field of mining potential.
Kind regards
Michelle
Dorthe said,
August 10, 2008 @ 9:31 pm
Hi.
Thanks a lot for your free video. NLP videos in this way are quite a new world for me to and – what a wonderful world. It’s totally compelling to study language, body language and eyeaccess.
I am living isolated in the North Atlantic. So the videos are a really good way to keep track of my NLP.
I am a teacher, so I will glad if you have some hints about anchoring, embedded metaphors and using the timeline on a blackboard….I am wondering if it’s possible to change limiting believes on 24 kids at one and same time?
I am a very kinestetic person so feel free to use your bodylanguage optimal and kin. repsys. words.
Duff said,
August 10, 2008 @ 10:42 pm
Those were some great new questions around “what do I want” that I’m excited to memorize and use with my coaching clients. Thanks!
The longer video (longer than the YouTube clips) helped me get a better sense of your teaching style. Thanks for sharing this with the public.
I’m looking forward to learning more from you from your videos. I’m especially interested in exploring the positive intents of “negative” beliefs, feelings, behaviors, and responses. I’ve been working with Core Transformation (from Connirae and Tamara Andreas) and have been really loving that process.
I’m also very interested in these language patterns and how they correlate with “reality strategies” or “reality tunnels” as Robert Anton Wilson referred to them.
Steve said,
August 10, 2008 @ 11:25 pm
The conversational hypnosis and covert language patterns are awesome. I would love to see more material on these skills
Shela said,
August 10, 2008 @ 11:40 pm
Yes. I want more. Want Change, See Jamie
Ken said,
August 11, 2008 @ 12:14 am
Jamie:
Thanks for the info and the new ideas.
Looking forward for more great stuff.
And by the way, when will you be coming out with the Sales Questions
Cards?
kevin said,
August 11, 2008 @ 1:40 am
I know youre intentions are good but the video doesnt teach anything about influencing other people. The teaser to this video was regarding 27 words you said to a bouncer. You never explained them.
Bertrand said,
August 11, 2008 @ 6:38 am
Hey Jamie cool video
here is a friend of urs from the heart of the amazon jungle in Brazil
really liked ur video
would like to know more about how i could be a practitioner of nlp and teach other ppl nlp in Brazil
thanks a lot
Tarun said,
August 11, 2008 @ 6:46 am
Hi Jamie,
Its been a great journey through your experience & insight. I have done so much of learning & unlearning through your video. I would like to involve even more deeper in the NLP aspect of training the MIND and being able to hold it consistently & more positively. Would also appreciate if you could suggest some basic level books so that I can get a better idea as to how to go about in this training and at the same time follow your tutorials!
Great Job Jamie!!!! cant thank enough for empowering so many lives and that too unconditionally. GOD BLESS!!!
Warm regards,
TARUN.
Nimal said,
August 11, 2008 @ 7:49 am
Dear Jamie,
I really appreciate your presentation and love to get more of this.
Thanks
codruta said,
August 11, 2008 @ 7:54 am
I loved listening to your stories, I started crying a bit at the ‘questioning time’. I appreciate your passion and your generosity and I plan for us to work together like the radio host did. Thanks for the valuable 20 minutes that started my week. See you soon with another of your videos!
Lee said,
August 11, 2008 @ 8:01 am
Hi Jamie, Greetings from sunny South Africa. Just watch your Video – loved it, loved it , loved it ! We are often so busy helping others we ‘forget’ to help ourselves. This made me aware of a few limiting beliefs that I have been holding onto and that heve really not served me very well. Looking forward to more. PS. Love the cards – they are my constant companion. With gratitude. Lee
Carol said,
August 11, 2008 @ 8:52 am
Thanks for the language pattern. I am going to try some of it in my hypnosis script, which I developed from your tips on hypnotherapy.
Take it easy,
Carol
Zaheda said,
August 11, 2008 @ 8:52 am
Hi Jamie
Truly mind blowing! I however would still like to have some insight on how to change a belief that I cannot understand or remember well! I know where it is coming from but cannot seem to get past it.
I have an excellent memory, and can recall most everything except under exam conditions……. please help
I do appreciate all, thanks and blessings
bowler said,
August 11, 2008 @ 9:01 am
Hi J,
Profound words of wisdom. I have greatly benefitted by the learnings of NLp than the sum of other audios put together because NLP is empowering . There are only rules that one sets that he follows.
NLP also teaches you to be in the now !!
Bowler.
meirav said,
August 11, 2008 @ 9:48 am
hi
first i want to thank you, i am doing alot of work on my unconscious in many ways,
do you have more of that? i will be glad to see and learn
meirav (from israel)
Noor Ashikin Hj Shahrom said,
August 11, 2008 @ 9:52 am
Its been a great journey through your experience & insight. I have done so much of learning & unlearning through your video. I would like to involve even more deeper in the NLP aspect of training the MIND and being able to hold it consistently & more positively. I loved listening to your stories.Thanks a lot for your free video. NLP videos in this way are quite a new world for me to and – what a wonderful world. It’s totally compelling to study language, body language and eyeaccess.
Angeline said,
August 11, 2008 @ 10:07 am
Hi Jamie,
Thanks alot for your endless training ….I use to be a very
strict on myself….but meeting you have changed my life.
Not only my attitude , but by changing my believes and faith
to give me the reality I wanted. The first 10 NLP training just
sounded so simple and I have got those rules and read them
over and over through other authers but I coudn’t reason them
out then…thank you again for your time and may God continue to
bless your talent richley.
Lina
astroinspiration said,
August 11, 2008 @ 10:10 am
Hi, that´s nice to see you in reality, not just as “Salad”. Good idea, video is just great. Masha
K.Perry said,
August 11, 2008 @ 10:15 am
*** Wow thanks…you have touched on the core of my involvement in Hypnosis and NLP..self-change. My success with helping others has been fulfilling but my frustration with not being able to make the needed changes in myself has been the Greatest Pain. I really look 4word to this ! ***
joel said,
August 11, 2008 @ 11:02 am
Thank you Jamie~
excellent mini seminar!
it was good to hear your speak!
enjoy your day!
Joel from Manhattan
john wilds said,
August 11, 2008 @ 11:06 am
hi jamie, thanks for your first e-mail to me,well ,the thing is i am age 75 now but very healty and very active, i have luckly always been very confident and ,most always done and got what i wanted,i read many books on your kind off stuff when i was a young guy [before internet] an it did not hurt at all, in fact it probably helped me along the way,i have been working for myself since i was age 12, starting several small businesses [not all at the same time] i loved music so through the years i learned myself several musical instruments and how to read music, i became a professional musician, at present time i play piano in hotels 3 to 4 times a week and earn good money at it,bye the way the piano was the last instrument i learned to play,even now i get advance music lessons on the ‘net, i practice every day,i also have lots of other hobbies, so i will read anything you send to me because i believe you can always learn more thanks john wilds, dublin ireland
Shriyansi said,
August 11, 2008 @ 11:13 am
Thanks Jamie, that was fantastic – I’ve written down the questions and will take an hour this evening to work through all of them.
I do think I was meant to chance upon this today – I’ve been thinking of changing career tracks and have always been petrified of starting something of my own. What I realised just now, was that my beleifs about my inability to run a business were serving my need to be financially secure… thanks for that! I cant wait to see what else comes out of my discussion with myself tonight!
Grace said,
August 11, 2008 @ 11:35 am
Thank you very much. I have enjoyed every item of NLP that I have received from you. I am really grateful.
Pat said,
August 11, 2008 @ 11:42 am
Thanks for that Jamie; as an EFT coach I’ve been working on my own self-limiting beliefs (S-L-B’s) and its finally sinking in that because I’m 70 doesn’t make me old and incapable! So I’m off on a round the world adventure!
All power to you
colette said,
August 11, 2008 @ 12:01 pm
what would have to happen for you to more slight of mouth !! also to interlink with with metaprograms ??
Judith said,
August 11, 2008 @ 12:27 pm
Hi,
Wow, great !!!
Thanks for sharing….!!!
Defenately whant to know more about that and learn all there is too is,
as much as I can
Judith
muskaan jain said,
August 11, 2008 @ 12:29 pm
dear jamie,
thanks a lot for all the information you are giving free of cost! i really APPRECIATE YOUR EFFORT! i am from INDIA.
MY REQUEST IS : WHATEVER THIS INFORMATION YOU ARE SHARING BY VIDEOS, I WANT YOU TO DO THIS MY EMAIL TOO, IN WORDS I MEAN. LIKE YOU HAVE BEEN DOING EARLIER WITH TIPS.
COZ IT TAKES A LOT OF TIME FOR THE DOWNLOAD AND MY CONNECTION SPEED IS MINIMUM TOO. THERE IS LOADING SIGN I SEE EVERY 5-8 SECONDS, SO IT IS REALLY VERY DIFFICULT TO watch it.
hope you will do that soon.
i could not see this video so i am waiting for the SCRIPT version of this. hope you send me soon on my mail ID.
all the very best, you are doing great job!
Cheryl Yarnold said,
August 11, 2008 @ 1:14 pm
Dear Jamie!
Thank you so much. Now I finally have a strategy to find out what I really want.I have been struggling with this for a long time, having no idea how to go about it. These sound like the right questions. I’ll let you know!
Annie
feda'a said,
August 11, 2008 @ 1:55 pm
THANK YOUVERY MUCH IT’S REALLY A GREAT VISION.
HOPETO HEAR FROM YOU …
WISH YOU THE BEST
FEDO
Melani said,
August 11, 2008 @ 2:23 pm
simple language that I love Jamie always uses. This sharing gives hope that you may achieve things if you think flexibly and not allowing limiting belief, also appreciate others
seeker said,
August 11, 2008 @ 2:39 pm
I really liked your conversation very much, it summeries all i know
all i want to tell you and asking for your deep help please as i am urgentaly need for help, I know what I want (Evolution, enlightment) very much and i believe in my wants but i born and grown up in Islamic culture that every thing i want are wrong in this culture, my family annoying me for that and i have to respect them and respect my culture too.
Please tell me what to do
Madhusudhan said,
August 11, 2008 @ 2:48 pm
Jamie,
I was curious to know about NLP and also as to what one can achieve through that. Your 20 minute free video based inputs on NPL, though at a high level was quite lucid and informative.
It has no doubt kindled my interest, but it might be great if you can summarize the need for NLP on the following lines i.e. Who should use NLP, when and for what. Of course, the how part is definitely your domain.
Many Thanks,
Madhu
Ana said,
August 11, 2008 @ 3:38 pm
I love it, thanks that you are with as all the time
Mark Bowden said,
August 11, 2008 @ 4:35 pm
Great piece Jamie. I’ve been enjoying yoiur work for years now and continue to do so. Excelent communication.
Best wishes,
Mark
http://www.truthplane.com
Thu said,
August 11, 2008 @ 4:41 pm
Hi Jamie,
This is Thu from Vietnam. As you already known the reason why I know your website and about NLP. Your 20 minute free video is very new and also interesting to me though I couldnt understand all what you said.
And as Madhusudhan said,
August 11, 2008 @ 2:48 pm …I would love to know more as what she mentioned above.
I think I may have something good for me in the future with your NLP. I used to be Sales Executive and recently I lose my desire to do salescalls. I fear to face all the refusal and failure if I may get…during I meet my clients.
For sure, I have to listen your clip some more times to be clear about it.
Many thanks and wish you the best!
Thu
Linda said,
August 11, 2008 @ 5:57 pm
Awesome Jamie! I will use this information to fix some problems in my personal relationships… :0)
Helen said,
August 11, 2008 @ 6:03 pm
Thank you Jamie
You’re very generous. Thank you for the information, the tips, the insights into how we behave. I would love to study it.
Katie said,
August 11, 2008 @ 6:18 pm
I like this format better than the previous advertising, which was much too wordy.
Do you know how to download your video to a CD?
Sincerely,
Kate
Kevin said,
August 11, 2008 @ 6:18 pm
Thanks Jamie, I was on the Robert Dilts Conversational Magic training with you. You make it easier to integrate the learning with this great video.
Whens the next one ?
Leigh said,
August 11, 2008 @ 6:57 pm
Hi Jamie,
Thanks so much for this vid. It is excellent. When you asked the questions related to what I want, a lot of ideas came up, linked to comfort and ease and space and fresh air. When you asked the question related to the limiting belief, (the ‘I can’t') I couldn’t think of anything, but I have a feeling why…I think I trained myself not to ever think/feel ‘I can’t’ and I think I’m actually scared of feeling ‘I can’t', coz it is linked to a feeling of panic and feeling very incompetent, which I can’t stand to feel. However at the same time, I don’t know or won’t allow to surface ‘what I want’ (or even if I have ideas about what I want, the drive or physical feeling of being charged up or motivated about ‘getting it’ is missing…so ideas abound but the level of feeling is missing…I think my script is damn clever, coz I’ve even adapted my inner voice to saying ‘I choose not to do x or y because I don’t feel like doing it/want to do it’ Yet at the same time, I’m not happy/satisfied…Any advice? (Or anyone else reading this got advice?)
Thanks again for your generosity and contagious spirit
All the best
Leigh
Jim said,
August 11, 2008 @ 7:01 pm
Hi Jamie,
Thanks for sharing your aha moment with us. I am looking forward to your next installments..
Best Regards,
Jim
Wouter said,
August 11, 2008 @ 7:14 pm
Hello,
I never listened to you before, and this time I did.
It seems to me that NLP has a lot to offer and I admire your passion about it.
Your efforts and the drive you have inside you to talk about it and to pass it on to us, is perceived as very valuable and very human too.
I wrote down those questions and I’m gonna think about them too.
Thank you very much and wishes for all the best!
Wouter
Kalsom said,
August 11, 2008 @ 7:18 pm
Hi Jamie, really appreciate your excellent sharing. Have not consciously isolated and tried to overcome my limiting beliefs. However after your video, i am now seriously addressing them, and to answer all the “what would you want . . .?” questions.
Look foward to your future similar sharing.
Many thanks and best wishes to you.
Kalsom
Andrew said,
August 11, 2008 @ 10:53 pm
Hi Jamie
Honestly all this stuff you are talking about is just SO obvious, in fact it’s as plain as the nose on your face just as soon as someone tells you about it!
Thanks friend
Andrew
Robert Morales said,
August 11, 2008 @ 10:59 pm
Jamie…
Excellent presentation. I also loved the seting. It was perfect. That’s about as natural as you can get. Having been a stage designer, I appreciated it very much.
I’m sending this little clip to a dear friend in England who is a Judge for the British court.
Robert
P.S. The women who sent this to me also sent it to all of our NLP group her in Los Angeles. I’m sure we’ll all be talking about it at our next meeting.
tony said,
August 12, 2008 @ 12:55 am
HELLO,THANKYOU,WONDERFUL STUFF,A FANTASTIC HELP.IM LOOKING FOR INFO ON WELLFORMED OUTCOMES AND VALUES.BEST WISHES.TONY
Cris said,
August 12, 2008 @ 1:19 am
Hi Jamie
It has saved me a lot of grief over the years because I am not fighting erroneous beliefs about singing, of which, there are many!
Thank you so much for sharing your conversational belief change ‘tips’. I have been on your email list for about 2 years and altho I don’t keep up quite as much as I would like sometimes, I have posted many of my favs on walls thruout the house and am always sharing them with others.
I am a voice teacher and learned long ago that if a student says ‘I can’t’ then they won’t. With every new student I share the ‘I can’t’ rule… you can swear all you want to, but if you say ‘I can’t', I’ll give you a knuckle sandwich.
And there is the rub… I must figure out what my ‘I can’t’ is even though I don’t use ‘I can’t’ anymore. I’m not worried though, I’m SURE I’ll find it.
Thanks again.
Roberta said,
August 12, 2008 @ 1:34 am
Hey Jamie,
Awesome! You blew me away… As an NLP practitioner you have taken my mind to a new level of thinking….
Very refreshing, exciting,.. so much power in what you speak…
I look forward to more of you, although we are so far apart I feel so near.
Roberta
(Australia)
Margie said,
August 12, 2008 @ 1:36 am
Hi Jamie,
Thanks so much for the information. You present it so well, and make it so easy to understand concepts that can be difficult to grasp. I’m about to begin NLP Practitioner training, and am so excited to be actively fulfilliing my hearts passion – helping people. It’s amazing, since beginning to learn about NLP, I’ve had so much personal growth! Your website was the starting point for me. Thank you so much!
Margie
Ryan said,
August 12, 2008 @ 1:54 am
Great stuff. Thinking of your slight of mouth used on the bouncer, I know that asking a question is a good way to disrupt his pattern, while the phrase ‘have to happen’ and ‘we are meeting inside’ seems like a nice covert command to the bouncer’s unconscious. By acknowledging his belief that he can’t let you in you are mirroring him and developing a rapport which will also make him more susceptible to your suggestion. The way this is put together is brilliant and provides a good template and example by which I could develop my own slights of mouth to be used in various situations.
Thanks!
julieta Diaz de Vivar said,
August 12, 2008 @ 1:57 am
Hi!!
This video its GREAT!!
I would love you to analyze that language pattern “I know that’s not negotiable, but what would have to happen for you to let us in anyway?”.
Thanx for everything!!!
Tam said,
August 12, 2008 @ 2:30 am
Jamie,
Well done; many thanks.
I look forward to future education.
Tam
mario said,
August 12, 2008 @ 7:56 am
many thanks for this information, JAMIE, it is very important and interesting. I would like to see if is possible if you can help me getting rid of my own anger, and how to calm down my wife when she is angry and how to make her come to think the way i want her to. thank you.
MARIO
Yair Aviv said,
August 12, 2008 @ 9:18 am
Hi, Jamie
An excellent report (as always)!
May I suggest a small modification?
The opening definition of BELIEFS starts, I think, with a too strong
emphasize on “examples of learning”.
It’s enough, from my point of view, to open with
“Beliefs are generalizations about ourselves & our world … ”
Yair
patrick said,
August 12, 2008 @ 12:01 pm
Hi Jamie,
Excellent Stuff. You have a great grasp of how people behave and are influenced by language.
NLP comes naturally to you, because you identify with people on a one to one level. You are always yourself, always authentic, and that is where your success lies.
Patrick
Martin Murphy said,
August 12, 2008 @ 12:05 pm
Hi Jamie,
Havent actually atteneded one of your courses, am actually a master Practitioner twice over, but am looking forward to meeting you one day. All your stuff is excellent and you got a great prescence about you…
Keep up the excellent work.. Your making a real difference to the world!:o)
Martin
http://www.theperformanceconsultant.com
Martin Murphy said,
August 12, 2008 @ 12:07 pm
P.S. Being a former Bouncer…and trainer of Bouncers… I could definitely see that example working on some of them!LOL
Mitch said,
August 12, 2008 @ 12:57 pm
Hi, Jamie
This is fantastic as always; I can’t wait for the next one!
Please make it soon.
urvashi said,
August 12, 2008 @ 2:28 pm
Hi Jamie,
Really liked the video. Made me think about how often we tend to limit ourselves on our own. Have not really been exposed to NLP, but am hoping to learn more through the material you forward.
Was wondering about the question – What would you want if it did’nt mean anything about you?
Urvashi.
Charlie Metzger said,
August 12, 2008 @ 4:36 pm
Hi Jamie,
I have your card set, two of the “unpacked” recordings, and now this. Years ago I took a 20-day NLP training course and have a “Practitioner” certificate. NLP ideas and procedures have been useful to me as a teacher and as a music director. Most of the time, I work with groups in a classroom or singers in a chorus and work to adapt and use NLP patterns of speech in those settings.
Rapport with a group is important to me and I find it easy to achieve usually. Belief change for singers is ultra important. Techniques for working with groups is an area that I would appreciate receiving more input about.
Many thanks,
Charlie
Moon said,
August 12, 2008 @ 4:50 pm
Hi Jamie,
Thank you so much for the information
i’m enthusiastic to knew more
Kathie Cureington said,
August 12, 2008 @ 5:04 pm
Hi Jamie…I have been following you process for a while now…I was/am
seriously studying EFT and the entire NLP process makes a heck of a lot of sense..now the Sleight of Mouth is great and with out knowing
exactly what it was I find my self ,as I wander, in my setups, using
this same type of patterning..interesting..The Vids are great..keep
them going ..Thanks, Kathie
Adina said,
August 12, 2008 @ 5:09 pm
Hi, Jamie,
Thanks a lot for this very cool free stuff!! I showed it to my sister (we’re both life coaches) and we were both soooo excited about it!!
Some of the things you said about the “scripts” reminded me of transactional analysis, and I thought there are lots of possibilities here to integrate techniques and methodologies.
THANKS AGAIN!!
GREETINGS FROM MEXICO!!!
Raj said,
August 12, 2008 @ 5:09 pm
Hi Jamie,
Thanks for the sixteen pages of awesome stuff. Though the NLP requires constant practice, it is not necessary to be expert to start experimenting and evolving what fits oneself. Since a year or so, I have been practicing what I learnt earlier through questioning or through visulisation.
To my surprise, I have been using this quite effectively in day to day dealings with good success. At times am surprised that I could recognise what’s happening in the other person quite with out making any effort ( at times even before starting conversation- just by observing – I don’t know may be intuitively). How can one explain this?
I wonder
Raj
Seng said,
August 12, 2008 @ 6:01 pm
Hi Jamie,
I loved the clip, that’s absolutely true and I realise that all the impediments to whatever success I want are limiting beliefs.
I look forward to learning more NLP patterns and also recommend anyone who reads my comment the book “The Secret”; It’s also a good book on shaping your mindset.
Hellen said,
August 12, 2008 @ 6:54 pm
Hi Jamie,
Thank you very much for your inspiring presentation on your video. And thank you for the free report on Sleight of Mouth. I intend to practice these set of questions and patterns right away! Thanks also for all your free items on YouTube from your training courses, it keeps my NLP-addiction satisfied!
Love you, Hellen.
vesselina said,
August 12, 2008 @ 9:51 pm
Thanks, Jamie,
This web cast is great. Please continue giving us ,all your readers and followers, the pleasure of listening and watching you. I am looking for your next one. In the meantime I will use some of your questions to test my own restrictive thoughts.
thanks again
Vesselina
Osvaldo said,
August 12, 2008 @ 9:58 pm
HI JAMIE,
from Buenos Aires, Argentina. Thanks for shearing your expirience.
I´m an ontological coach and your words are very helpfull. It was a pleasure hearing you.
Best wishes,
Osvaldo
Sil said,
August 12, 2008 @ 10:41 pm
Hi Jamie,
what about the idea that if I´d reach or get my (whatever), there´s nothing coming afterwards? We´re afraid to die, there´s nothing coming behind, which may be in the way so we don´t achieve what we want, the fear of death?
But there are goals that keep us alive, get us to work and let us enjoy effort in the way that they challenge us and create new goals afterwards, we only forget about that because this fear is there?
Love,
S.
Amani said,
August 12, 2008 @ 11:42 pm
Hi Jamie,
Thank you very much for this valuable information and for these free pages too I really appreciate this.
But there is something I have to tell from my reality, beside what you tell in video and from the book:-
every thought we think is creating our future. Resentment, criticism and guilt are the most damaging patterns. So.. When we really love ourselves, release the past and forgive every one, we will live in peace and feel happy we will see that all is well.
Releasing resentment, self approval and self acceptance are the KEYS to POSITIVE changes
with love and care
Amani
Tammy said,
August 13, 2008 @ 12:52 am
Hiya Jamie
Thanks so much for this blog, as with others the timing was great. I am currently seeing a life coach and since the first session with her I have made leaps and bounds in a number of areas in my life. Your blog was confirmation that I am heading in the right direction.
I would like to thank you for your enthusiasum and excitment about NLP and how this can help us all to progress in our lives and to help others to progress in thiers.
I wish you all the best and cant wait for you next lightbulb moment.
Regards
Tammy
Mikhail said,
August 13, 2008 @ 6:45 am
Hi Jamie,
Useful knowledge, I appreciate this! maybe it would be nice if we see more language patterns on beliefs changing.
BR,
Mikhail
jen said,
August 13, 2008 @ 7:08 am
Thanks Jamie,
I’ve been enjoying you emails for some time and look forward to some bedtime reading with this latest “conversational belief change”. I am hoping that I will finally move beyond the shadow, from thought into action. Despite having been blown away with NLP for the past 9 years it still all seems to remain in theory mode.
In light, love and laughter
Jen
odile said,
August 13, 2008 @ 8:35 am
Hi Jamie,
Thank you for sharing all of this
It is very encouraging
Thunj said,
August 13, 2008 @ 3:22 pm
Thanks for the valuable information which I learnt from your vdo that everything is possible if you belive it. I can’t wait to hear more from you.
Berni said,
August 13, 2008 @ 5:22 pm
Hi Jamie
Cannot thank you enough for the fabulous information you kindly provide. Every piece of info you explain and break down so that it is easily understood. I am currently using your cards and learning the language patterns and every day learn something new about NLP.
Thanks. B
Luisa said,
August 13, 2008 @ 8:17 pm
Hi Jamie:
I just read your report and your answers are coming to me like I am asking you questions directly! Why is that? Anyway I would like to know more about “beliefs are just ideas” What do you mean by that? the next question is when you start believing something the belief comes thru your senses can you elaborate on that I am really interested! I also would like to know information about NLP classes please foward information. Thank you soooo very much!
Luisa
Gabby said,
August 13, 2008 @ 8:25 pm
Language is a trap set by the mind. You must get beyond the words to the real meaning.
Language is a vrius – William S. Burroughs
Oland said,
August 14, 2008 @ 12:11 am
Great info Jamie ,
I’ve come to enjoy the great things you share.
Keep up the Great work as we learn easely to better our world.
Thanks agian, Oland
Connie said,
August 14, 2008 @ 1:52 am
This stuff sounds like LANDMARK EDUCATION. Are you familiar with Landmark? I do like this stuff. It gives people power when all the ifs, ands, & butts, heee,he, are taken out the way.
Your future is where your mind is.
Lou said,
August 14, 2008 @ 9:32 am
Thanks for your generosity and your wonderful timing !
with love
Lou
Lindsey said,
August 14, 2008 @ 9:45 am
Hi Jamie
I’ve just read your conversational belief change using Sleight of Mouth – thanks again for giving us some great free resources again. Really sorry that I can’t make the teleclass tonight – otherwise engaged.
Going back to the Sleght of Mouth – this is a very straightforward version of Robert Dilt’s sleight of mouth and one that everyone that wants to change a limiting belief can use. I really liked that you have put the Intention as the 3rd question, I find that vey powerful. I was surprised that the Bonus presuppose was last, however I understand your comment re active position. I also noticed that you used the Reality Strategy twice – for what purpose?
A very nice, succinct use of Sleight of Mouth Jamie and very well explained – Thanks
Best Regards
Lindsey
Alexander AKA Sandy said,
August 14, 2008 @ 9:58 am
Good concept and video. Suggest you re look and the beginning of the track “Amazing stuff for you” in congruent body language as you are doing a negative head shake!! Keep up the good work.
Serge said,
August 15, 2008 @ 2:23 am
Really love what you are offering, a great gift.
I am unfortunately unable to attend this one because I will be at work in the afternoon at the time of your teleconference.
Hopefully you will be recording it and making it available for download as an MP3.
Cheers
sabina said,
August 15, 2008 @ 7:46 am
Hi Jamie,
Thank you for this entire excellent free staff you are sharing. I learn a lot and it is very inspiring effective and professional.
My question is- I feel overloaded by information, techniques and things I want to practice. How can you help me with this? Is this a matter of my changing perception or beliefs? What
Is the most effective practice you recommend for a beginner like me?(I am a NLP Practitioner an I feel in the ‘ground floor’ of this endless knowledge..)
Thank You
Sabina
Merle said,
August 15, 2008 @ 12:52 pm
Hello Jamie
Flamtastic! Thank You so much for this videod “expose”.
It’s facinating to see the tie up with hypnotherapy and the Byron Katie work.etc I used SOM with a client today and then took her into a deep relaxation and anchored the change…Brilliant and such a time saver
Is ithere a chance of your showing us more involving relationships, and ADHD (much as I dislike giving dis eases a title because of the negative beliefs that arise from the name)
Stress especially in todays financial climate and sexual dis orders…and ways to deal with people who are grieving and hurting ..and who after a lengthy period of time, just are battling to get to the next step up from it.
Many thanks
Merle
Vic said,
August 15, 2008 @ 9:04 pm
The conversation slight of mouth 16 page booklet was great and I did download.
The web seminar was great on the audio but I could not get the viideo kept saying password or email address was wrong.
From what you were saying and the questions you were asking I could see in my minds eye how a diagram could help the structure of the learning and application of the work.
There is also Kelly’s theory of constructs could help the understanding from both client and coach allow the shift to occur. It would also help the learning.
I need to have some more thoughts and get back to you.
Regards Vic
Elisabeth Kuhn said,
August 15, 2008 @ 11:57 pm
Hi Jamie,
I enjoyed your video until it stopped at 3:49!
You say something about in 1996 and then–
nothing.
FYI: I was watching this on Firefox on a Mac.
Would love to see the rest of the video. I’m
really enjoying them and am learning a lot.
Thanks.
Elisabeth
http://www.myfavoriteselfhelpstuff.com
Elisabeth Kuhn said,
August 16, 2008 @ 12:31 am
Well, I went over to Safari and it played just fine.
And I realized I actually saw it a few days ago (must have been on Safari),
and it’s GREAT. I thought this was a different one at first…
Among other things, thanks for sharing the book suggestions.
I’ll go out and get some of those
Elisabeth
Ryan said,
August 16, 2008 @ 6:49 pm
Jamie,
NLP was just a vague concept before I stumbled across your website some months ago. I am going through some major life changes now, and your happiness tips, and other resources have been very helpful in the transition. This video gave me some really incredible things to think about and internal dialogues to have with my limiting beliefs. You have been a source of encouragement for me, and also a source of insight, both of which are needed at this time.
Keep up the good work! It is obvious you are chasing your dreams and your passions, and the ripples from your success are benefiting many others you don’t know or intend to benefit, even here across the pond in America. Of course, in the end, benefits will come to you, and I certainly wish them to come sooner rather than later!
Thank you.
-Ryan
Lorna said,
August 17, 2008 @ 1:38 pm
Hi Jamie, I loved the video and the book as well. Thank you. I am currently studying NLP practitioner course( Distance learning as there is no NLP courses where I live). The video helped so much.
My questions were: What do I want: want to be busy and make more money. How will I know I’ve got it – when I get more clients. I can’t make money positive intention- can’t think of it. Where am I going wrong?????.
Thanks again
John said,
August 18, 2008 @ 10:25 am
Hi.
I’ve really been getting into NLP over the last year or so, I’ve been following your NLP videos and articles. Very powerful!
I just wanted to add something to this video, a turbo sort-of …
I’m currently reading Michael Hall’s book called Figuring Out People, it’s truly amazing and it makes changing belief patterns so much easier.
Can you please post us a list of your top 10 book recommendations, specifically for belief change?
Roberta said,
August 18, 2008 @ 6:33 pm
Thanks Jamie
I really like these blog do-dads. Very user friendly. Ive been following your work for a long while now and frequently recommend your site to anyone I know who has an NLP interest.
The blogs are easier for me to remember than the tips that are written down-as bits of conversation tend to force themselves back into my brain at critical moments. And to have something this useful doing it is excellent! Would really love some negotiation techniques I could use in business situations.
Great Stuff! Cant wait for the next one.
Rob said,
August 18, 2008 @ 8:55 pm
Jamie….! Amazingly interesting! Its really great you explained these very few words and what it all does to the mind. Especially creating the confusion in the mind that can cause hypnotic effects.
Hope to see more soon…
Thanks!
Rob
Alex said,
August 19, 2008 @ 11:46 am
Jamie! Smart transfer of knowledge. It sure serves a highest purpose. And you have being mnifesting it with passion. Congratulations!
DICK said,
August 19, 2008 @ 8:00 pm
Jaime
I am not crazy, I have devoured all the stuff you have done it’s great. I want t take a moment and congratulate about Nikki and Serena, they are great employees and I have deeply appreciated their work. I’s refreshing to see honesty and courtesy on the internet today. now the patterne are great
and have given me insight I never had before about NLP language patterns. The only problem I have is 76 year old ears which really have to work hard at hearing you occasionally. But I still listen and view every on for their content. Thanks very much.
dick
Nick said,
August 20, 2008 @ 4:36 am
Jamie,
Thank you very much for providing this excellent information free of charge! I’ve found it to be extremely helpful and appreciate all you do to help.
Best wishes,
Nick
Claudia said,
August 20, 2008 @ 5:52 am
I´m really interested in you site and also very helpful. you asked me if i amcrazy for not having bought yr package but i am i total freeze and it´s not a belief. Keep sharing please. Not having a job has gven me time to learn about this. I’m sure I´ll be able to afford it eventually
reallyinterested in Mexico
Claudia
Abraham Lincoln Owusu said,
August 20, 2008 @ 10:15 am
Hi Jaime,
That was fantastic. I really enyed every bit of your presentation. I picked a lot of insights from the klip. I think you are really a gem for this generation. how can I get copies of your books? thanks
Abraham Lincoln Owusu said,
August 20, 2008 @ 11:00 am
Jaime,
I am not crazy, your message came to me at the right time when I needed to take a major decision in my career and I think I am a better persons now with your information. Meet me at the top.
Thanks
Abe
Mohamed Nusry said,
August 20, 2008 @ 2:05 pm
Hi Jaime,
It was fantastic. I really enjoyed. Truly I am going to change some of my beleives which should be changed immedietly. By the way, as a Teacher/ Trainer cum Counsellor, I can use many of your ideas to change my students and clients. Thanks a lot
Mohamed Nusry
Varun Salaria said,
August 20, 2008 @ 10:27 pm
Hey Jaime,
Great stuff mate…I’m sure that a lot of practices you talked about will help me better myself in my area of expertise as an individual.
Keep up the good work of sharing your knowledge, cuz I’m sure it only helps folks who take out time to go thru it. And I’m sure I’ll ask a lot of my peers and collegues to subscribe to your website and go thru simple practices that can really change life. Thanks!!
Regards,
Varun Salaria
Tito said,
August 20, 2008 @ 11:03 pm
Hey Jaime, thanks for sharing the telephone conference on belief change. It helps as a sample or model for what i am trying to implement in my everyday activities.
By the way, with regard to the bouncer story how do you know exactly what words to use at specific times? is there a list of power words? Jjejeje
Thanks a lot really!
EDDIE said,
August 21, 2008 @ 1:11 pm
THANKS SO MUCH FOR THE WORK YOU SHARE. I have been so intrested in the work you do with NLP. I would love to attend one of your seminars but you are alittle far across the pond from the US.
Please keep up the good work in continuing to share thoughts. I have been having a bit of a struggle in my life and the things you have shared have given fresh insight into how to give new meaning to my future
feda'a said,
August 21, 2008 @ 2:39 pm
salam …
thank you very much …
i beleive in changing …
i downloud your vedios to see it later …
cause right now im very busy >
keep in touch
fedo
Patricia Headford said,
August 22, 2008 @ 3:11 am
Jamie
It is such a blessing to have found you.
What I love about all you do is that it bespeaks of your generosity, your passion and your deep connection to what matters. This makes you truly awesome. You know how to allow the great YOU to operate through you. and you do it magnificently.
The moment I connected with you I knew this instinctively…so even if you had nothing to say, a blessing would be there anyway!!
I truly love your stuff..and am learning heaps.
Thank you…. thank you…… thank you.
Patricia
Lisa said,
August 23, 2008 @ 6:22 am
Jamie,
Thankyou i just love your energy,passion and insights into the fascinating world of NLP….by the way does this stuff come in a bottle as I want to drink it every day!
Warm regards,
Lisa
Isra' said,
August 23, 2008 @ 4:45 pm
Thank you Jamie … that was helping.
Isra’
drsk said,
August 24, 2008 @ 8:08 am
A nice presentation.Pl increase the volume of video
Fatma El Zahraa said,
August 26, 2008 @ 6:42 am
Jamie,
I know about the map is not the territory , but your easy explanationns with simple examples helped me to really see how I experienced it myself. I also loved your last question about how would it be if a miracle would happen, it’s a wonderful question that reveals in me many uncovered things. I also found out how I had some beleifs that hindered me in many ways, however I was not conscious that I really had some of them in my unconscious. Many thanks for your generosity.
Keep shining,
Fatma El Zahraa
Cristina said,
August 28, 2008 @ 7:49 pm
Hi Jamie,
when addressing a question asked on this blog, you said that one shouldn’t try to help people that do not want to be helped, isn’t it?
What about children then? I have stubborn children that should be “coached”, but, obviously, they fight any such attempt
Thanks,
Cristina.
jozes said,
August 29, 2008 @ 12:59 pm
Hi, Jamie
I enjoyed about this video, my kids would say ‘he is tsar’. I’ve some beliefs that you are in passion with stuff you do.
Great!
Thank you!
Jože (Slovenia)
Brad said,
December 25, 2008 @ 6:11 am
Hi Jamie,
You are so kind in posting that great video. You have really inspired me to keep learning.
Brad (Santa Barbara,Ca)
Jackie said,
February 15, 2009 @ 4:16 am
Thank you Jamie,
That was both enlightening and inspirational. Your passion is infectious but what I most wanted to comment on was the generosity of spirit in your approach to sharing this knowledge which I think is the best recommendation for you and your work. I think i can learn a lot from you.
Conrad said,
March 27, 2009 @ 4:08 am
Hi Jamie,
Nice. Thanks for that. Have been a NLP prac. but you have made NLP more easier to understand and apply…..and that’s a big “wow” for me. Scripts are the real “hidden” string pullers and you have helped me become aeare of them….in a more real way, beyong the theory.
Your cards are awesome….yep, I got all of them using another name and CC…I wish I could attend a NLP prac. again by you in UK someday…..when the flights from Malaysia to UK get cheaper!
Thanks for inspiring me….am greatful!
Conrad. : o )
John said,
April 2, 2009 @ 5:19 pm
Hi Jamie.
This is cool my man an awesome addition to the NLP ‘tool box’
thanks a bunch from SA.
lotus said,
June 13, 2009 @ 12:27 pm
Jamie thankyou for your challenging questions.
Lotus
lotus said,
June 13, 2009 @ 12:29 pm
Jamie hello having trouble sending this email. thankyou for your challlenging questions and information.
Kind regards Lotus
tyson said,
July 21, 2009 @ 3:04 am
I know you charge for your slide of hand package, but what would have to happen in order for you to give it to me for free? because i dont have any money.